If you are not very careful about the things you say to your husband, then you may be killing your marriage without knowing it.
Words are very powerful, it can build, and it can also tear people apart in a twinkle of an eye.
That’s why you must think before you let any word come out of your mouth.
It may be very easy to forget your actions, but words go straight to the heart and remain there forever.
Many marriages/relationships are the way they are now just because of one word that came out of the mouth of one couple or both couples.
In this article, I am going to show you what unguarded words can do to any relationship and I will also show you 9 things you should never say to your husband.
There is no doubt you are very aware of the power of spoken words. You know what any good or bad word can do whenever it goes out.
Some words are better to keep to heart, than saying it out. So why should you put your marriage in jeopardy or make your husband feel inferior because of the things you say to him.
“Sticks and stones can hurt very much”, but while the wounds and bruises caused by them heal in a matter of time, the damage from that unguarded word may last forever.
People will always remind you of what you said to them a long time ago.
Here is what the Bible said about the tongue in Proverbs 15: 14, “A wholesome tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness therein is a breach to the spirit.”
James 3v6 9 (Amplified version)
“And the tongue is a fire (the tongue is a fire) world of weakness set among our members, contaminating and depraving the whole body and setting on fire the wheel of birth ( the cycle of man’s nature) being itself ignited by hell”.
I have seen marriages shattered because of careless words and I don’t want it to happen to you, my friend.
We’ll be looking at some of the careless words you must avoid saying when you are talking with your husband, no matter how hard you are pressed to say that.
And here they are: ).
9 Things you should never say to your husband.
I am sharing these with you not to make you feel mad or bring back memories of what your partner said to you in the past, but to remind you of the affirmation that you must think before you say anything. So listen up.
I love to hear the male point of view. One of the main turnoffs is when we women “unman” our partner and maybe we don’t realize we do it.
Goodness! ,Any of these would be incredibly hurtful and not a good way to speak to your husband!