Hello and welcome to my blog today. I want to share the importance of communication in making your marriage a happy one.

Communication as I said is the most important recipe for building a strong and happy marriage. Any marriage that lacks communication or rather a good communication is on its way to a great fall, because the absence of it causes every other thing in marriage to stop working immediately, If not handled well and properly.

When there is a communication break down in marriage, the couple involve begin to look else where for a better one.  This eventually brings infidelity and cheating.

From survey, most of the crumbled marriages actually started from this communication gaps. It doesn’t matter the amount of love the couple may have for each other, communication is paramount if the marriage must remain the way it used to be.

There are level of communications that I want to share with you here today in this article, and I implore you to take note of them all, but most importantly, I want you to give more attention to the  one that works best for every marriage.

Although there are five levels of communications in marriage,  yet not all of them are equal in value. While some level are just good, some helps so much in bringing intimacy to your marriage, so spend more time on the more higher level.

Level one

Information and facts:- This is the first level of communication as well as the first recipe for a strong and happy marriage

It is all those extremely simply conversation that goes on between couple. It is merely an exchange of information like inquiries, asking for direction etc. This level in marriage is made up of all the daily discussions between couple.

Level two

Reporter Talk: –

This is often the most common way to know how relationship is fairing. Couples have more time to share about their heart stimulating experiences like books they read, movies watched, sermons heard and other things.

These things become more pressure able as they are being discussed by couple, because it brings joy to them. At that point they expected you to pay close attention as the experiences are being shared. They want to know how good their interests are related to yours.

Level three

Sharing and discussions of your unique ideas: – This is the level of communication you have all the plat form to share your personal ideas. In this type of communication, more pre-cautions are taken to prevent quarrels incase your spouse does not buy your idea.

If there is no emotional safety between you and your wife, then I suggest you keep your ideas to yourself.

Level five:-

This level looks more like the second level, only that it involves the divulging and revealing things about yourself that are more private. Example, are things like the likes and dislikes, experiences, failures, goals, future and hopes. If this level is received and understood well by the couple, marriage becomes sweeter. However, this level is not always reached by couples because nobody wants to share all the personal experiences or may be the feel to know anything that needs to be known. But it is necessary that this level is attained.

Level five

Emotional communication:-

Understanding this level of communication in marriage may bring greater intimacy between couple. In this level, they are ready to share about their feelings, emotions and needs.

The ultimate need of the couple is revealed In this level, and each couple want to be properly understood.

Rapping up

Communication is atually the main recipe for building a happy marriage, if it is lacking in your marriage, then you and your spouse must do everything to get it back if you want your marriage to grow.

About Aik

AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers has been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed for coming to this site.


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