In this article, I want to show you how you can have a very passionate marriage, and how you can keep intimacy hot and alive in your marriage forever.
This is the best result any couple can have in their marriage, even you.
This thing called intimacy is naturally alive when the marriage is still young and fresh, but how to sustain It as the marriage grows is one of the things every couple must try to learn.
However, if you are here now and reading this very article, then you are on your way to having that love and joy sustained forever in your marriage. This will surely make your marriage a strong and more passionate marriage.
What do you usually think when you visited a friend and you find both couples laughing, kissing, cuddling, and calling each other sweet names?
Now consider this also; you went to a friend’s house, and each time it is one augment or the other if not fighting.
Let me tell you one of my experiences.
I went to a my friends to a wedding in their car one day; on our way back from the wedding, a little argument erupted which made my friend park his car on the road and dug it out with the wife there and then. All my moves to separate the fight proved abortive that I had to invite the police to help out.
Now tell me, which of the two marriages would you want to be associated with?
- The one that fights always, or the happy couple.
Let me answer for you.
The passionate marriage of course.
I want that type of marriage and I know you do too
So let’s go on now and find out how you too can have and sustain the passion in your marriage.
What do I mean by passionate marriage?
Passionate marriage is the type of marriage where both couples are happy with each other and they prove it through there kisses, holding on of hands, cuddling and the whispering of those words like “ I love you”
In this type of marriage, everyone involved is always committed to making each other relaxed and happy at all times.
Below are a few ways to have a passionnate marriage.
11 Sure Ways to have a very passionate marriage
1) Be there for each other.
From the bottom of my heart, I want you to know that I truly appreciate you for being there for me when I was down and broken. You were there for me every step of the way. I truly love you, darling. Thank you.Anonymous.
Remember that you made a vow to be with each other in good and bad times till death do you apart. How have been keeping the promise? If you have stopped caring and being there for yourselves, you have to start again
Any couples that share passion are always engrossed in their passion that they don’t usually care about the age or other differences. You can’t help to see yourself falling in love with this couple wherever or whenever you see them.
That’s the power of passion and can only be felt when you take care of one another.
2) Learn To Hold Hands Often:
“When you hold my hand I’m reminded that I’m not alone in this world, that somebody loves me, and that I have a best friend.”– Darlene Schacht.
From my experiences, I have found out that one of the problems in marriage is lack of passion. If you want to avoid the pain of your spouse cheating on you because you are boring, then you must find the passion to share.
Start by holding and squeezing the hands of each other. Holding hands is one of the commonest things we do daily but don’t know the importance. According to the medical experts, that little insignificant behavior can trigger good chemical reactions in our minds.
Dr. Kory Floyd said that hugging, holding hands, and touching can release oxytocin which makes us feel happy. Isn’t that what you want in your marriage. Holding hands can impact your marriage today. Try It one more time.
4) Be Emotionally Available:
If I fell into one relationship after another with men who were either emotionally tuned out and unavailable or hotheaded and controlling, or both, it was because I was lacking in a good sense about men.”
You can never achieve your aim of building a passionate marriage if you are not emotionally available to do so. First and foremost, you must be sure to make your marriage or your relationship to be the very first priority to you.
Let all you think about becoming the ways to be committed to your spouse better and happy at all times.
5) It’s Not Good To Bear Grudges:-
Let today be the day you finally release yourself from the imprisonment of past grudges and anger. Simplify your life. Let go of the poisonous past and live the abundantly beautiful present … today.– Author: Steve Maraboli
Never have grudges or resentments against your spouse. Always have a plan to hold, touch and kiss your spouse. Make new advances to him or her.
Tell him or her about those beautiful dresses he/ she is wearing Remember everyone loves validations. Share stories about books read our other stories, play hide and seeks and give surprise gifts.
When you bear grudges, you are blocking your heart from favor that would have come to you. Let go of the past and hope for a good future.
6) Forget the Past and Move Forward: –
Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday. It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love?– Leo Buscaglia
There may be a past event in your life that has made you always want to keep people at your arm’s length. Your spouse may have wronged you in the past that you find it hard to forgive and trust.
Maybe you were raised in a family that made you feel distrustful of affection. Whatever may be the reason, just forget it and move forward with your life.
7) Constantly Admire Your Spouse: –
We have reached the highest level of love. I don’t need anybody in my life, but you and nobody can replace you.Anonymous.
One thing you must understand is that no one is perfect in this life, but people want you to tell them that they are good or you can highlight mostly on those things they did well.
Look at the little work your spouse has to help you done in the house and tell him/her they were very nice. If there are other domestic works you want him/ her to help you out in, remind him/her of the other ones he did perfectly, and then ask him/her if he could do some more.
Spend More Time Together:-
Out of all of the moments in my life, the ones I have spent with you are my most favorite.Anonymous
One of the secrets of rekindling the passion in your marriage is by spending a good time together. It is when you spend time and get Along well that you know how compatitible your as spouse.
The more you spend time, the better you communicate and learn about each other. You will build a great bond by sharing times. So don’t stop if you still do that, but if you haven’t started Start today.
Your marriage should be your priority. Do everything you need to do to make it work effectively. Put all efforts into rekindling passion. You will learn how to do that from reading this post.
Try holding hands, cuddling, and kissing. Be dedicated and committed until you achieve your relationship goals.
Remember these will help you build up a passionate type of marriage.
I hope this article will help you.
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