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Learn all from my personal marriage story.


Today, I want to share a very important story that will inspire all my readers. I want to share my personal marriage story.


I decided to write my personal marriage story with regard to so many questions I get from my readers. I have no reason to doubt that this story will inspire someone to start writing his or her own happy marriage stories or maybe when you would have tried some of the tips I have written down here.


It all started in 2014 when I made up my mind to get married. I had long lists of what type of woman I want to marry.


1. Tall
2. Fair in complexion
3. Beautiful
4. Quiet
5. Church going type
6. Hard-working
7. A good cock
8. Prayerful and so on.


The list was actually so long.


But let me tell you one thing that will give you the shock of your life now; I was not able to get half of the things in my list, and yet I can prove to you that my spouse is the type of woman every man will want to have.


Here is why I said this: never think you will get up to a hundred % of your own list if you are still searching. It takes stepping into the water for the water to divide. Do you know what I am talking about?


In 2005 ( 10 years ago) I met and married my darling wife (cherish). One mistake I made at that time was believing that I know everything there is to know about marriage, but even the fundamentals of marriage were so strange to me.


Now, this is what happened next.

After going down the aisle and saying the “I do the thing” Life started; yes! the life of a married man. It was a new life altogether.


Everything changed, more responsibilities added. I was doing the superman. I thought I could make things happened on my own.


But things where crumbling very fast. One day I decided to hand everything over to God. I let Him take over from where I stopped, then everything started changing and taking shape again.


Let God take over

Then we learned what I did not know before, and could not even know had I not handed everything over to God.


Here are the things we learned

Pay close attention to all I am going to share here. Those are where my happy marriage story started.

(1) We learned that marriage is a union of two different people who came together bringing two different unfinished businesses:-

These unfinished businesses were the things that created so many problems in our marriage at the early stage. We also learned how to work on our maturity, and then slowly, our relationship began to mature also.


(2) There where every need for us to change as life changes:-

When one decides to grow, there is every need to adapt to the different stages of life, and to also know that different stages of life come with different gifts and challenges to marriage. Until we recognized these, we started making adjustments and then we started growing with each stage we passed.


(3) Accepted each other:-

We both came to the realization that we have different views of the same opinion. Most of the things that trigger my wife’s love and joy were not the same things I feel. The things I am sensitive to also were different from my wives. When we found out that we could not change each other, we accepted ourselves the way we are.


(4) Both of us the importance of saying “ I am sorry”:-

One thing is certain in every marriage; there must be quarrels and uproars. However, there is every need to quench the fire immediately even when you are not the course of the problems.


All these are the different things I learned and also inculcated in my marriage that gave me the reason to write this my personal happy marriage story.


I sincerely believe that someone has been able to learn something from this article.

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What Makes a happy marriage


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How to have a very passionate marriage


Have a passionate Marriage


This article is to show you how you can have a very passionate marriage, and how you can keep intimacy hot and alive in your marriage forever.


This is obviously the best result any couple can have in their marriage. Everybody prays for it.


This thing called intimacy is naturally alive when the marriage is still young and fresh, but how to sustain it is one of the things every couple must try to know about.



However, if you are here now and reading this very article, then you are on your way to having that love and joy sustained forever in your marriage and this will surely make your marriage a strong and a more passionate one.


What do you usually think when you visited a friend and you find both couples laughing, kissing, cuddling, and calling each other sweet names?


Now consider this also; you went to a friend’s house, and each time it is one augment or the other if not fighting.


Let me tell you one of my experiences.


I went with one of my friends to a wedding in their car one day; on our way back from the wedding, a little argument erupted which made my friend park his car on the road and dug it out with the wife there and them. All my moves to separate the fight proved abortive that I had to invite the police to help out.


Now tell me, which of the two marriages would you want to be associated with?


Let me answer for you.


The passionate one of course!


You are asking me how I knew your mind. I did because that is what everybody would want and I want it too. So that is how I know you will want it too.


So let’s go on now and show how you too can have and sustain the passion in your marriage.


What do I mean by passionate marriage?

Passionate marriage is the type of marriage where both couples are happy with each other and they prove it through there kisses, holding on of hands, cuddling and the whispering of those words like “ I love you”


In this type of marriage, everyone involved is always committed to making each other relaxed and happy at all times.


1) Be there for each other

Both couples are also not tied to being there for each other, both in time of happiness, but also In those times when all seem to be at the crossroad.


Any couples that have passions they share together are always engrossed in their passion that they don’t usually care about the age or other differences. You can’t help to see yourself falling in love with this couple wherever of whenever you see them.


2) Lack of passion

From my experiences, I have found out that one of the problems in marriage is lack of passion. If you really want to avoid that pain of your spouse cheating on you because you are boring, then you must find the passion to share together.



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3 Proper Steps to Building a Passionate Marriage


4) Be Emotionally Available

You can never achieve your aim of building a passionate marriage if you are not emotionally available to do so. First and foremost, you must be sure to make your marriage or your relationship to be the very first priority to you.


Let all you think about becoming the ways to be committed to your spouse better and happy at all times.


5) It’s Not Good To Hear Grudges

Never have grudges or resentments against your spouse. Always have a plan to hold, touch and kiss your spouse. Make new advances to him or her.


Tell him or her about those beautiful dresses he/ she is wearing Remember everyone loves validations. Share stories about books read our other stories, play hide and seeks and give surprise gifts.



6) Forget the Past and Move Forward:

There may be a past event in your life that has made you always want to keep people at your arm’s length. Your spouse may have wronged you in the past that you find it hard to forgive and trust.


Maybe you were raised in a family that made you feel distrustful of affection. Whatever may be the reason, just forget it and move forward with your life.



7) Constantly Admire Your Spouse: –

One thing you must understand is that no one is perfect in this life, but people want you to tell them that they are good or you can highlight mostly on those things they did well.


Look at those little work your spouse has to help you done in the house and tell him/her they were very nice. If there are other domestic works you want him/ her to help you out in, remind him/her of the other ones he did perfectly and then ask him/her if he could do some more.



Remember these will help you build up a passionate type of marriage.


I hope this article will help you.

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How to win your husband’s love again

Win your husband's love again

Have you ever wondered how you can win your husband’s love with you again? Then I am going to reveal it to you here without holding back anything thing.


This will help you to bring back happiness in your marriage.


It’s always common with women when they talk, yell and show disrespect to their husbands without understanding the implication of their actions.


Men are not likely to yell back at their wives some times, but they usually know what to do in their minds. My advice to you as a lady is to find a better way of talking to him than nagging and yelling.


Before I tell you how to get his love back again, I must also let you know most of the things that can make him fall out again if you are not careful to take them out of your character.


You must take note of these things to avoid future occurrences.


These are the things you must check


Ways To Win Your Husband’s Love Again


You don’t care about his family, lack of communication, not being honest, not trustworthy, no more attractive, too much argument, lack of respect, keeping late, drunkenness and boring sex life.


All these can make your man love failure. However, you can easily win him back again if you can take these steps.


The first thing you must think about is those qualities that made him love you in the earlier days of your courtship. It is obviously true that partners change as the day progresses and those changes affect feelings.


Go back to that first love

If you were so goal-oriented in your early days of marriage and now you are not, then you must try to work yourself back to that life again.


If you are the type of woman that was easy-going before marriage, but now you are not again, then you must retrace back to your easy-going life again.

You Can’t Change Him.

Never try anything about changing your man, it may not be easy for you, it can only make things worse. Men don’t usually want their wives to control them; they have this male ago that leads them.


The best step to tread is just to work on yourself. Every man wants to marry a woman that has a high value. Make your life more rewarding to him. Show him that you know that you are worth dying for.


Learn to consider the things you say or do at a point in time. Those are the things that can make him fall in love again with you.


Use Your Wisdom.

Remember you must not rush him if he is not showing you love. Even when you have brought the matters to him, never try to push it; use wisdom to make him fall in love again.

I hope this will help you.

Yours Murphyaik