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How to be happy again in your relationship

How to be happy again in marriage

Every relationship has it’s ups and downs, and there are lots of things that can make you unhappy in life. Thankfully, there are also lots of ways to be happy again in your relationship and I will show you how in this article.

Here is the truth: if you are in an abusive relationship, you married an egoistic partner or your partner is controlling, and you have done all still nothing worked, this post may not be the best for you.

These tips will work best if you are having little issues that are affecting your pleasure.

 

Before you married, you though your marriage will make you happy forever, but you are seeing the opposite in your relationship now.

Your partner is taking you for granted and most of your needs are not taking care of.

It doesn’t mean he/she has fallen out of love with you, yet they are either consciously or unconsciously making you unhappy.

If this described you, then below are things you can do to be happy again in your relationship.

 

Take care of yourself, beautiful

How To Be Happy Again In Your Relationship.

 

1) Make The Right Choice:

This should be the topmost on the list of how to be happy again in your relationship because the type of person you married determines how you will feel forever.

If you make the right choice, you will get the best from your relationship, if not, you will regret it as well.

Although nobody is perfect, yet everyone is not created equal.

You should be careful when making your choice of partner if you want to be happy ever after.

Pray for God’s directions and don’t rush into a relationship with pity, or because your friends are getting married. Take your time and watch your intending partner and be sure both of you are compatible.

 

2) Quit The Bad Relationship Immediately:

It is important to know what works and doesn’t work for you. Many relationships can never get better no matter how you try.

You have been in that relationship for years and you have tried all you could to make things better, but your partner is not helping the matter, that may be the best time to quit and look for a better one. Or try changing yourself because you may be the reason.

However, if you feel you will make things better once more, then keep trying and follow some of the steps here.

 

3) Stop Expecting Much From Your Partner:

One of the main killers of relationships is our expectations. Expectations are good though, but unrealistic expectations are not good.

Expecting so much from your marriage or your partner can make you feel bad, especially when your expectations didn’t come true.

Have high expectations about your relationship, but keep it to what you know is possible.

For example, you can’t expect your partner to look like Monalisa and expect it to happen, or you thought your relationship could look like what you saw in that romantic movie.

It can work out the way you want it: but what if it didn’t happen that way, how would you feel?

 

4) Keep Your Relationship Sacred:

It amazes me all the time when I see someone badmouthing his or her spouse to their friends, even making jests with them.

Well if your relationship has gotten to that level, then you have no reason to remain there. Your relationship should be a sacred union, and you should respect your partner every time.

Stop comparing your spouse with another person, don’t ridicule them when you are with friends. It will be interesting if your partner knows that you are his/her best wherever you are.

If you truly wish to be happy again in your relationship, then you must keep it sacred and keep nurturing and sacrificing to keep it free from stress, that’s when you are sure of happiness.

 

5) Make Up Your Mind To Always Be Happy:

“Happiness they say is a choice.” That’s true, however, you can’t really be happy by just shouting “I am happy” every day. You have to deploy some corresponding actions that will aid you to achieve it.

When you make a choice to be happy, then you’ve got to do those things that will make or that has always been keeping you happy.

Look back into your life and find what they are; what gives you the utmost joy when you do them and relinquished that thing that brings stress to you.

It will not be the best if you want to control everything In your marriage, but just decide to be happy, because that’s the most important choice that will give you the power to jettison all you can’t control.

For example, if you focus on causing changes in your relationship or trying to change your partner, you will never be happy, especially if they are not changing.

I implore you to focus on what is already working for you and step up from there. That’s the step to being happy again in your marriage.

 

How to be happy again in your relationship

6) Just Take Care Of Yourself:

You have to start taking care of yourself because that is another important key to being happy again in your relationship.

Change your wardrobe if there is need for that, or get fit, take care of your health. Again take yourself out someday, it may be to a far country or neighboring towns.

Most especially, do whatever you deem fulfilling to you and can put your mind off the negative sides of your relationship.

The moment you start taking care of yourself, you will attract other people into your life who can help you forget the stresses. You could also win your partner’s cares too. It happens like that.

 

7) “Be romantic.”

Being romantic can keep you and your partner together more than anything else, so try and be as romantic as you can to achieve your aim.

Try surprising him/her once in a while and always be sure to do so with what they like. You can’t surprise them with things they don’t like or want to do, therefore understand what interests them more.

If he likes a particular type of food for breakfast, then prepare such before they ask for it. It will be of no use to give them what they never liked.

Plan romantic dates for just the two of you and don’t discuss any other thing but about yourselves.

Being romantic will add more colors to your relationship because if you succeed in keeping your partner loved, you will be loved back immensely.

 

8) Choose To Love:

Many experts said that we don’t have control over love, because “love is just what happens to us.” That may be true anyway, but the truth you can make a choice to love whomever you want to.

In order words, you alone have the right to choose whether to continue loving your partner as days go by or not.

Making a relationship work doesn’t depend on how much you love your partner or the circumstances surrounding it, it only depends on how long you are willing to keep loving in the midst of what you see or feel.

“Love also covers so many since.” It will make you overlook so many things which would have made you sad or stressed.

Therefore to keep yourself happy in your marriage, don’t stop loving yourselves.

 

9) “Be Positive Minded.”

It is normal to feel bad when you are going through difficult times in your relationship, but feeling bad will not make the situation better.

Drowning yourself with negative thoughts will make things even worse for you because it will sniff out the whole positiveness from you. In times like that, it is pertinent to think the right thoughts and cultivate the gratitude spirit.

If you could submit your self to negativity, you can as well try doing the same to positivity, because that helps better.

Inculcate the habits of having good positive discussions with your partner. Be grateful to them for all they do for you and compliment than for those achievements small or big.

Always remember to share those good moments you had with them and forget the bad ones.

A grateful heart keep you away from being engrossed with negativity during difficult times in your relationship

Always believe that the best days will soon come.

 

10 Do Your Best:

To have the best of anything, you must be willing to do your best also. Therefore do all you think will bring the joy you required, go the extra mile to make your partner happy also, because your marriage is not about your happiness, but about your partner’s happiness.

It is important to note that you can be extremely happy when you keep your marriage and partner happy as well.

 

Final thoughts:

It is a choice to feel good or bad, and the choice you make will determine your life. If you choose to be happy again in your relationship, then concentrate on the things that attract good to you.

Think the right thoughts and say the right word. Read the affirmations that are consistent with your situation and have faith in God. You will have the happiness you desire.

 

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AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers have been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed by coming to this site.

Aik

AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers have been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed by coming to this site.

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