So you want to know the qualities of a good partner in marriage. Don’t worry, in this article, I will show you how you can identify a good partner from the crowd.
When it comes to marriage, everyone has their discretions of what a perfect partner will be.
Your description of a good partner in marriage will be different from that of your neighbors, but the simple truth is that there is no such thing as the perfect partner.
You may have your right preferences, but you will be chasing shadows if you continue waiting for Mr or Mrs. Perfect because you won’t find one.
However, some people have distinguished themselves in a certain way and you will love to be with them forever.
In as much as you seek some qualities that are unique to you alone in a partner, there are certain characteristics you and your partner can aim for that will keep the fire burning forever in your relationship.
Although these characteristics won’t be visible in the beginning, as you start searching for a date, have these qualities in mind.
10 sure qualities of a good partner in marriage to note.
1) They Are Fun To Be With:-
one of the characteristics of a good partner in marriage is that they are loving and fun to be with.
Some people can be a wet blanket when you are around them. You will never feel secure or good when you are then. But a good partner in marriage keeps you happy and secure always.
You will always want to be around this type of person, not because he/she has so much money to spend, but because you are relaxed with them and at the end of the stay with such person, you’ll always have something that makes you want to miss those moments together.
isn’t that the type of person your want to be with?
Below are a few things that makes someone fun to be with.
- Open-minded: They are free with you and can tell you anything without being too careful.
- They are agreeable: Friendly, and always willing to support you.
- Conscientiousness: They are organized, meticulous, and diligent.
- Caring: He/she is ready to pamper you till you feel at home.
A good partner in marriage loves to be there for you all the time. They are not only ready to put down their devices to pay attention to you but they devote all their time to everything that concerns you and how to make you feel great.
According to Debra Campbell, (psychologist and a couples therapist from Melbourne, Australia), “Being present means giving your partner all your focus and being there for them in a way that is deeper than merely being there physically. It means you are ready to see things the same ways they see it and not your way.”
I love how KC Young, one of the world’s know marriage therapists described the word “presence; “being present being able to drop, stop and focus when there is an important moment as a couple.
That simply means your good marriage partner must be ready to drop anything that can divide the attention during couples time (Source).
3) Self Discipline:
“Self-discipline is doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done even when you don’t feel like doing it.”Anonymous.