How do you know if you are not ready for marriage or you are? This question is important to answer before you take that step. Marriage is not a child’s play that you can go in without preparation.
It is not for babes, neither is it for moms boys, or girls. If you go into marriage without being ready, your feet may be swept by the wave of the institution.
Therefore, before going into marriage, you should know if you are ready for it or not.
However, if you are not sure how to know if you are ready for marriage or not, then read this post to the end because I will show you how to know if you are ready for marriage or not.
Why Is This Important?
- Because, when you are ready for marriage, then every part of you is tuned for it: The truth is that you can’t wake up one day and talk about getting married the next day. It takes time to prepare and make up your mind for it. And when you are sure you are ready, then every part of you agrees to that.
- There is time for everything. According to the word of God, “there is a time for everything.” Marriage has its time and you must wait for the time. If not, you will have yourself to blame.
- Some are growing up to do before marriage You need time to yourself up spiritually and physically. Certain things need to be in place you must get them ready before talking about marriage.
11sincere signs you are not ready for marriage.
1) Your Search Never Ends:
You have informed your friends that you are ready for marriage since 5 years ago and you haven’t found any. Not that there are not enough people on earth to choose from, but your choice of spouse is not available in the world.
Your criteria for the type of person to marry are many. Your list of the characteristics of a good partner is endless.
But the whole truth is that; you can never get every quality you want in a spouse. “Nobody is perfect, even you.” In that case, reduce your list because you’ll remain single if you keep looking at the list.
When your list is minimized your near-perfect partner will locate you.
2) When You Keep Wondering In The Past:
. “I saw this was the way of the future, to leave the past behind as if it were a dream.”― Alice Hoffman.
That’s the truth. Your past will keep you from moving forward if you keep basking in your past. Leave your past and concentrate on your future, that’s the only way to move forward with your life.
For example, you are still remembering your ex that broke your heart many years ago, and you are wishing to have him/ her back. That’s great. However, you may wait forever for that, and still Be disappointed the second time.
The way forward is to think about a fresh, happier, and successful relationship. That’s a sign of being ready for marriage.
Missing your ex means you are not ready for a new spouse, and even if you eventually marry, your new relationship can’t work because of that.
I, therefore, implore you to keep your past behind, so you can have a good view of your future.