Now you have found your Mr right, preparing to be a wife is the next thing in your mind now.
But what does it mean to be a wife? How can you start getting ready to take on your responsibilities as a wife and a mother?
It is simple. Being a wife is not an easy task. There are many tasks you’ll have as a mother. One of them is taking care of your whole family.
You have to be prepared for this task, otherwise, you will not find it funny at all.
In this article, we will look at ways you can get yourself ready to be a wife and a mother.
Let’s dive in.
10 proven steps of preparing to be a wife.
1) Understand That Marriage Takes Works.
If you are planning to be a wife soonest, then may I tell you now that marriage is not an easy task. I am not trying to scare you, but the reality is that marriage takes work and commitment to work effectively.
Love alone can not make you succeed in your marriage, though love is the starting point. Commitment and continuous nurturing are what you need to succeed.
During the first years of a relationship, things are sweet and normal. Nobody feels bad about each other. As the marriage begins to mature, many obstacles and challenges will emerge; love starts fading at this point, and complacency sets in.
The only ingredients you’ll need to sustain your relationship this time are your commitment, devotion, and energy.
Those three things are what will keep you calling the obstacles of your relationship.
So if anybody told you that you are completely immune from problems when you married, that’s a lie.
You must be ever ready to do whatever you will to make your marriage an example to other couples.
2) Don’t Stop Praying About It:
This is the time to commit your journey to the most high God. You have to pray fervently that God makes you the type of wife that your husband will cherish.
Virtues wives are the pride of your husband and the families as a whole and you can’t make yourself that without God’s help.
Proverb 3 vs 5 says “trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your understanding. in all your ways, acknowledge Him and He shall direct your path.
You need to let God guide on you how to be the best wife and mother because you cannot do it yourself.