Author: Aik

Having a thriving Christian marriage doesn’t have to be rocket science. To achieve it, you only have to take a certain step.

In this post, you will learn of 5 smart ways you can use to have a thriving Christian marriage.

If you are not so sure what they are, then follow me closely as I shape you how you can have a thriving Christian marriage.

What is Christian marriage?

A Christian marriage is a  marriage that has been instituted and patterned according to  The principles of the word of God, and it is only between one man and one woman.

In that case, everything about a Christian marriage has to be consistent with what the Bible says about the marriage

5 Smart Ways To Have A Thriving Christian Marriage.

1) Be Ready For Challenges:-

The truth is that no matter how strong your Christian faith is, there must be challenges (1 Corinthians7:38) and if you are not careful, you may be swept away when the flood when it comes.

To be able to stand the taste of time, you should always be ready when it comes.

One of the ways to do that is to recognize the source of those problems

Most of these troubles no doubt do come from within our marriages. The common example is the lack of spiritual and emotional connection in marriage.

Here’s What to Do

To deal with such a problem, it is important that each partner understands how to develop a personal relationship with God and with each other.

Every challenge that comes should be able to draw us closer to God and to each other and not to destroy us.

2)  Understand Your Differences:-

Understanding is almost the first top qualities of a good couple,  In as much as every partner is allowed to feel secure in being who they are when relating with each other, you still have to see things from your partner’s point of view too.

That’s where understanding comes in.

We are not created the same

You must understand your individual traits and characters. This will help you to neglect so many things when they start showing up in your relationship because you know they are synonymous with your partner.

You know that your husband is temperamental and your wife is highly emotional.

And that’s why you are not shocked when she displays such.

3) Pray Together And Always:-

The family that prays together, stays together. That was a familiar saying by Rev Patrick Peyto.

Patrick Peyto was a Priest and he proved beyond a reasonable doubt, using his family that praying together as a  family creates a big bond in the family.

In Matthew 18 verse 20  it reads “For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.”

Also

In Mathew 18 verse 19 it also says “That also proves you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven”.

Prayers play an important role when it comes to marital success.

4) Keep Investing In Your Marriage:-

To keep your marriage spry always, you have to nurture it every time. When you stop nurturing it,  it will stop growing, and it may as well die.

To avoid such, you have to keep investing in it.

Always ask yourself what next you will need to do to make your relationship better than it is now?

Find a way to invest more time, money and yourself to see those things worked out perfectly.

5) Remember The  Love That Brought You Together:-

Something brought two of you together as couples, Probably, you loved something about him and he has about you too.

Whenever things stopped going the way it should, then remember those interesting moments you shared in the beginning.

If possible, write those things down on a paper, and paste it wherever you will see it often.

And only concentrate on your spouse’s good side

The word of God reminds us to give thoughts to only the good things.

“Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. only give thought to these things”.

 Conclusion.

To have a thriving Christian marriage, then you have to follow God’s principles for marriage.

God’s work will never go out without accomplishing what it is set to do. So base your on the word and lean not on your own understanding

If you are tired of waiting for that man, if you are sick of being single and you are not sure if you will ever get married in the next 5 years, then I have good news for you. You can genuinely attract a man to marry you fast.

This post is all about holding you by hand and showing you how you can genuinely attract a man to marry, and also make him fall head over heels in love with you.

At the end of it all, you’ll discover the secrets that will make you get into any man’s head and initiate that marriage proposal you’ve been dreaming of.

Imagine becoming irresistible to any man =))
If this is exactly what you want to achieve, then let’s get down to business.

The fact is that =))

All your dreams to meet and get married to the man of your dreams has landed you into so many troubles.

You have fallen to the hands of cheaters, playboys, and you have been through so many disappointments and heartbreaks.

However, after reading this post, you will know that the power to get married is all in your hands.

You will be able to tell when a man I ready to marry and how to make him want to, even if it’s not in his plan.

Before we get down to our business of the day, let’s learn a little about men.

Who are they? What the things that make them the men they are called? And how would you know if a man is thinking about settling down?

All these are important because until a man is really ready to marry, he can never ask you to marry him no matter what you do to lure him.
You can never succeed in getting any man commit to you if you are ignorant of his makeups.

Know the things that motivate and drive him and how he loved you.

forget about your plans to change him when you get into the relationship.

It absolutely will not work, in fact, consider that the greatest mistake you’ll make in life.

What I want to let you understand here is that there are three important things that are of great importance to any man, and that determines if he will ready to settle down:

They are

1) Who he actually is.

2) What he does.

3) And how much they earn.

All these will occupy every man’s mind and give him no room for any thoughts about settling down, and unless those three things are settled in his mind.

Of course, he may not have the whole things down, but immediately he finds out that the dreams are taking shape, and that he is capable of taking care of his family, then that’s when he starts thinking about you.

Now you know what drives a man, and certainly, you can win any man of your choice.

Here is how. = ))

How To Genuinely Attract A Man To Marry Fast.

1) Be completely irresistible to any man:-

This is a trick many girls have not tried before, but frankly speaking, if you know how to make a man beg for it, then you’ve got to have any man at your fingertips.

I said this because I know that being irresistible will make him.

a) Make him want to travel from a far place just to see you again.

b) Will make him wanna call you every minute.

c) Will make him beg you to go and meet his parents and above all.

d) Get to his kneel to beg you to marry him.

It doesn’t matter how you look or how you are dressed, you need to be the woman you are right from the inside.

Do you really want to be wanted by every man?

Here is what to do.

• Be confident of yourself:- Helen Rowland said in his quote that ” The woman who appeals to a man’s vanity may stimulate him, the woman who appeals to his heart may attract him, but it is the woman who appeals to his imagination that gets him”.

Confidence is one of the qualities men don’t joke with when they find it in women.
A confident woman never seeks to do approval to do anything she wants.

They love to be themselves and know what they worth and are also confident that she can get whatever they want in life.

If these qualities I mentioned are not in you, then you have to work on your low esteem to increase it.

• Be original:- Quote “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it”.
  Bruce Lee.

Don’t Pretend

Be who you are always and do pretend to be who you are not created to be. If you are the type of girl that believes you have to look like Princess Diana, or you prefer dressing in a particular way just to draw men’s attention to yourself, then you are not doing yourself any good.

Men like it when you are proud of you are, I don’t mean being arrogant, but you are proud of your look.

Learn to express and respect yourself, because no man will respect you if you don’t have respect for yourself.

3) Always be a mystery:-

It’s always tempting to divulge everything about to that man, after all, he is your would-be husband.

But wait! Do you know that men respect you more when they take the time to understand you and what you are made of?

And so to create a spark into that man’s curiosity about who you are, don’t tell everything about you, allow him to do the findings all by himself.

4) Be available and easy to be with:-

It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are, if you don’t make yourself available and easy to be with, men will run away from you.

All men want an easy and pleasant life and so sometimes playing hard to get works, but frankly speaking men don’t like a drama queen.

5) Be mature Emotionally:-

Quote ” The Criteria of Emotional Maturity: The ability to deal constructively with reality, the capacity to adapt to change A relative freedom from symptoms that are produced by tensions and anxieties

Quote

The capacity to find more satisfaction in giving than receiving The capacity to relate to other people in a consistent manner with mutual satisfaction and helpfulness

The capacity to sublimate, to direct one’s instinctive hostile energy into creative and constructive outlets The capacity to love”.

William C. Menninger.

Are you the type of woman?

If you are the type of woman that likes to have her way in everything, you shout almost at every and you don’t mind crying until you are not mature emotionally.

Truly you are matured in age, but to be matured emotionally comes with experience.
Emotional maturity implies that you have the capacity to manage and control the intensity of your emotions.

You know yourself so well that even your man says or does things that trigger despair in you, then you are still calm but doesn’t mean you’ll swallow everything, whether you like it or not, but you always look for the better ways to settle everything.

If you understand the process of managing your emotions well, every man that comes your way will definitely see you as an amazing girl to be with.

3) Set a standard and have requirements:-

If you are in the marriage market and you don’t know what you want, then you are setting yourself as a playground for men.

You should build a fence for yourself by getting your standards up, that not every dick and harry can have his ways with you and get away with it.

Let them know that you are not as cheap as other girls.

You should always have in your consciousness that whenever any man succeeds in tricking you, then it was you that gave him the opportunity to do that.

Men hang around women for just these two reasons.

a) To get married to you
b) To use you and dump you.

If he succeeds or fails, that depends on you.

The good thing about is that we men are very simple people, if you tell us what to do, we will not fail to do it, especially if it’s to our benefits.

Men pursue a girl to know if she is cheap, and when they find you cheap, they just treat you like the other cheap girl.

However, if you let them know what qualities you are made of, then they will decide if they will stick around or take to their heels.

4) Take good care of yourself:-

learn how to look your best at all times. Every man hopes to get married at any time, however not to every type of woman.

They want to marry a girl who knows how to take good care of herself. Remember the way you look is how you’ll be addressed.

So look good all the time, dress properly and make that man desire to marry you.

If it’s your desire to attract any man to marry you, then you have to stand up to your feet and do the necessary things and then wait for them to come running to you.

Conclusion

I have taken my time to write on those steps you should take in this post.

It may not be all easy, but doing what is needful will help you achieved whatever you want.

Remember, if you continue doing things the same way, you will continue getting the same results.

Read this post carefully and take action where necessary and always be expectant of good results.