What are the signs a Nigerian guy is using you? These are the questions I get from my readers every day. I want to use this opportunity to answer your questions.
If you are in a relationship with a Nigerian man, and you don’t understand whether he loves you or playing you, then this post is for you. Being in a relationship is sweet if you play by the rules; if not, you will cry of broken hearts always.
But I am here for you as your relationship adviser to save you from the impending heartbreak. In this post, I will show you 15 signs a Nigerian guy is using you.
Who is this post for?
- For a single girl looking to get married soon.
- If you are already in a relationship with a Nigerian man.
- You’ve suffered a broken heart before from a guy and you don’t want another one.
- A Nigerian Man is currently approaching you for a relationship.
If you find yourself in any of the conditions above, then pay attention to what am saying here.
Let’s dive in:
15 Proven signs a Nigerian guy is using you.
1) He Won’t Chase You At All:
Yes, he was the one that asked for your hands in friendship, that’s interesting. Now, he won’t call, chat, or even send you a text message. If you don’t call him, he won’t call. Yet any time you call him, send a message, or chat to him, he will want you to believe he was on the verge of calling you.
Such is one of the signs a Nigerian guy is using you. The law of relationships says that ” if a man loves, he will do whatever it takes to win you.” Forget the excuse that he is shy. He is just not into as you are into him.
The truth is that all men can’t resist taking action, especially when they see what they want. So if a Nigerian man is not chasing you, forget it he doesn’t want you. But if you keep pursuing him, you will have your heartbroken, and he won’t think twice about it.
Believe me when I told you that he will continue to play you until he is tired, so give yourself some sense and stop where you are now; else you enjoy having heartbreaks.
2) He Will Have Many Excuses For Not Seeing Or Calling You:
Does that sound like the Nigerian man you are dating? That’s another of the signs a Nigerian guy is using you. Like I said earlier, a man who loves you will want to be with you always; not for anything, but because he is missing you.
He will call you now and then to find out how you are fairing and he will visit at any slight chance to have a glance at you. That’s how to know a man that loves you.
4 thoughts on “15 Proven signs a Nigerian guy is using you.”
Very nice very interested
Am glad you like it.
Time to release this relationship.
I been talking to this Nigerian man and at first the chats were everyday up until 2:00am in the morning then all of a sudden it dropped down to small talk. He was professional he loved me, with sweet words like sweetie, my wife, my love. Now its lucky I get 20 mins out of him. He used text me and let shower, eat something now its he’s always tired of felling asleep. What should I do?