How to get a Nigerian man to marry you.

Nigerian men are the sexiest men on earth and are pretty good to date or marry. So if you are looking to get a Nigerian man to marry you, then you’ve made the right choice.

Secondly, once you know what steps to take to find a Nigerian man to marry you, then half of the problems are solved, if not, I am here to show you steps to do so.

This article will guide you on how to get the man of your choice in Nigeria and how to deal with a Nigerian man to get his maximum love.

If this is what you want, then follow me closely.

How To Get A Nigerian Man To Marry You.

There are some factors you should consider when you want to get a Nigerian man to marry, and until you find the answers to those questions, you may find it hard to succeed in your plan.

They are.

– The man’s ethnic group.

– His marriage cultural demands.

– If the man is ready to marry.


Understanding The Man’s ethnic group:

Your first step should be to know the man’s ethnic group as this will to a great extent determine your success or failure.

Each ethnic groups have a different culture that is peculiar to them.

You will need to know how their culture especially their marital rights and privileges.

There are some ethnic groups that don’t welcome outsiders to marry from then, and even if they do, their cultural demands maybe so much and scare you away from taking your step.

Until you find these out, it may not be wise to take your first step.

Marriage Traditions:-

There are 250 ethnic groups in Nigeria and each of them is blessed with different marriage traditions.

Knowing these marriage traditions might make you rethink your marriage plans.

Some of these marriage traditions are so outdated culture that needs to be phased out and may make you want to reconsider your proceedings.

However, some marriage traditions are just lovely that you will be pleased to welcome them.

How To Know if the Nigerian man is ready for marriage.

To every man in general and to a Nigerian man in particular, three things are important to them.

Until those things are in place, he will never think of marriage.

Those things  are:

1) “Who he actually.”
2) “What he does.”
3) “And what he earns”.

These things are important to every Nigerian man all his daily struggles are to make sure he puts that thing in place as these will occupy every man’s mind and give him no room for any thoughts about settling down, and unless those three things are settled in his mind.

The two most important things to a Nigerian man is his work and how much he earns.

The reason is this:

Every man understands that his family is of the utmost importance to him. Nobody will take care of his family if he could not. So he strives to get a job that will guarantee his income.


Now that you have seen how to know if a Nigerian man is ready for marriage, let us dive into how to get a Nigerian man to marry you.

How to get a Nigerian man to marry you.

1) Make Yourself Wife Material:

Nigerian men are always on the lookout for what they describe as wife material when they are ready to marry, in that case, if you are not one, then make yourself one.

Thankfully you can make yourself one if you choose to. All you need to do is to learn what it takes to be a wife material.

Many years ago, the description of a wife’s material is very different from what it is now.

Then a wife material is submissive, always home to look after the children, knows how to cook and lots more.

Things are different now:

To a Nigerian man, a marriage material means someone that is caring, has integrity, responsible, committed, and matured.

All those are very important recipes for a good marriage and you must have these qualities to attract Nigerian men for marriage.


2) Make Yourself Indispensable To Men:

Some girls seem to be more attractive to men than others. Every man wants to be her friend not because she is beautiful or super attractive, but they possess some qualities that make them indispensable to men.

You can be much too. You can be the girl every man will like to marry by doing the following –

– Be confident of who you are:

Men will be more attracted to you when they notice how you carry yourself. No! You are not proud, but you also know that you are not a cheap girl that men can toy with so even if you are not beautiful, try boosting your confidence, and you will see how men will follow you like flies.

It really works.


– You’ve Got To Love Yourself

You really need to love yourself so people will also love you. Remember that “like attracts like.”

Not loving yourself simply proves you don’t know that you are worthy of other’s love too. If you can’t love yourself, then you don’t believe that you are worthy of others’ love; that also shows you’ll also struggle to build relationships.

To attract a good relationship, then do all to love yourself.

– Be Easy To Stay With

Every man adores women who are easy to get along with.

If you are such a girl, men will love to be with and will never want to miss being with you forever. You can easily get marry when you are lovable.

If you have those qualities, then you are really a marriage material.

3) Take Good Care Of Yourself:

Men love women who love to take good care of themselves.

You may not know this, but when you are good at taking care of yourself, it simply shows you can obviously take care of your partner and your family too.

Even if you are not beautiful enough, you can still take care of how you dress and your looks entirely, most especially your size.

It makes you feel better to yourself and still gives you the energy to take care of your family as well.

Those are the important things Nigerian men look at whenever they are looking for a girl to date or marry.

4 Never Love Him, Respect Him:

God did not command the women to love their husbands and men don’t need their wives to love them either.

God’s command it that women should honor their husbands and that’s exactly what they should do.

Your husband sees your honor as love, and mostly your honor

Starting from the ways to talk to him, your actions, and the ways you deal with him generally.

Few checklists to honor him

– Be his fan.

– Treat him like he is the only man on earth.

– Correct him with love.

– Give him listening ears.

– Don’t compare him with others. Etc.

Don’t Chase Him:-

If you really want to get a Nigerian man to marry you, you should never chase him, instead let them chase you.

In as much as there are some countries that don’t mind who chases and who is being chased, Nigerian men are the exception. They like to be the chaser and value you more when you prove a little hard to get.

If you love a Nigerian man and want him to chase you, better find another means of letting him know and let him make the first move.

Men generally want to be chased:

Men see any woman chasing them as being desperate and lacks self-worth; that makes them avoid you. If they eventually accept you, they may not value you better.

The reason is that any man that likes you must chase you, but when you do chase them it shows he doesn’t love you: so chasing him at that moment gives him the reasons to play you.

Be A Good Cook:

Nigerian men value their stomach so much that they prefer a woman that cooks better to the one that knows how to love.

Although that didn’t sound sexy and romantic enough, that’s true of every Nigerian man.

May I also let you know that Nigerian men think about food most than they do about sex. Simply put, if you ain’t know how how to cook, you may not win a Nigerian man’s heart.

Remember they said that “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” If you are not a good cook, start learning from now so you can win him.


I hope I am able to answer your questions about how to get a Nigerian man to marry you this article?

Here are a few things I said about getting Nigerian men to marry you.

1 You must make yourself a wife material.

2  Make yourself indispensable.

3 Take care of yourself.

4  Never love him, but respect him.

5 Don’t chase him.

6 Be a good cook.

All these will make him be madly in love with you and want to marry you immediately because he will not want to lose you.


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