If you are having trouble in marriage, that doesn’t mean the end of the road for your relationship.
If you are of double opinions about whether to throw in the towel or stay put, I have good news for you. In this post, I will show you how to survive in an unhappy marriage.
Here is why this post is important to you.
Making a what while decision, whether to leave an unhappy marriage or to stay and keep your sanity, could be a lot of soul-searching especially if there are lots of things that can make you want to stay,
This post will help you know what to do next, at least how to survive in an unhappy marriage, if you choose to stay.
If that is what you want, then read further. However, you should understand that these tips may not be too helpful if your relationship is an abusive relationship.
Read my article on ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP HERE TO LEARN WHAT TO DO.
If yours is simply how to survive in an unhappy marriage, then check out the following steps.
How to survive in an unhappy marriage.
1) Detach from your partner:
If you really want to stay in marriage despite unhappiness, your best option to survive your unhappy marriage is to try detaching from your partner.
By detaching, I don’t mean you start doing your thing and stop caring. Also, it’s not about separating yourself in a way that is dishonoring to your partner. It means you have to overlook your partner’s unhealthy choices and completely disagreeing with anything that’s not consistent with your personal opinions.
A good detachment from your partner will give you good independence from some troubles and also give you freedom from their disturbances and controls.
The kicker is:
When you don’t have much to share in common together with your partner, their dominative practices will not be of any effect on you anymore.
Although it may not be easy for you, that could be a life-changer for you. Just close your eyes to your guilts and give your partner spaces to be whoever he/ she wants to be, which may help him to consider their actions.
These are things to do exactly:
– Don’t socialize with them.
– Disregard their behavior.
– Be a kind stranger to them.
– Don’t ask them for help and don’t give one too.