9 ways to have a sexy wedding night

Sexy Wedding NightThe wedding is over, all the anxieties of planning to have a successful wedding are over. Thankfully, everything went so fine: and now it’s time to have a sexy wedding night as a married couple, but you have no idea how or what the night will be.


If you are among those that sent a mail to me about how you should enjoy your wedding night with your spouse, then this is for you.


In this post, I will reveal to you some proper steps to make your wedding night an extraordinary one.


If you are ready, then let’s get started.


How To Have Sexy Wedding Night As Couples.


Take Things Slowly:- 

The real truth about this wedding night is that you may not be too strong to carry on after the stress of the wedding.


However, if you are too crazy about what you should do on this wedding night, then I advise you to take things slowly and let everything unfold by itself.


This is not the only night you will spend as a partner, you still have ample of the night to share together.


Spend more time enjoying and learning about each other, but be free to let whatever will be to be.


If the atmosphere becomes supercharged for sex, then dig it up. It’s your first night after all.


You may be expecting too much:

It’s your first night together and that’s pretty good,  however, you should not expect heaven to come down that night. Do whatever you can naturally do, and leave the others to happen on its own.


You could get worn out because you are thinking of enticing your partner.


Well, if there is anything else that will add color to the day, then do so, but not because it is your first night, but you still have the strength after the wedding to do so.


Set The Atmosphere Right From The wedding Hall:-

You may be busy at the wedding venue appreciating your invitees but also use the opportunity to set the ground for a sexy wedding night.


Find ways to touch each other, caress, kiss, and gaze at each other’s eye.


Doing these will send romantic messages to your spouse that you can’t wait to get into the action as you wait for the wedding night to come.


Change Into Something Sexier:-

Immediately after the wedding, refresh yourself and change into your wedding “night lingerie”, or something different from what you’ve been wearing.


Just look for something that will help put your spouse to the mood.


Yes, you can really market your products. Sex can be marketed. If you can package yourself properly, your partner can be aroused for great sexual action.


Be Open-Minded: Be ready to say what you want:-

The hour will FInally come and you’ll be alone in the room with your partner. It is just the both of you.


There’s no room for shyness. Just be open-minded and tell your partner what you want for your first night after the wedding.


How do you want to be touched? Where are your hotspots? You may find this difficult to do, but you have to, otherwise, your partner will not know how you want what you want.


And also be ready to take whatever your spouse is bringing to the table. Sex gives and takes. So be open-minded.


“Communication is truly the key to bedroom bliss”.



Remain Attractive And Beautiful.

So many couples have lost their attractiveness to each other simply because one of them has forgotten how to be attractive.

To avoid this, keep nurture and make sure to keep yourself clean always. Take care of your skin, body, and keep every part of your body alive always.

Be attractive and sweet always so your spouse will desire you always and want to come to you alone.


Also dress properly and neat, because the greater part of being attractive is in the way you dress.


Be Ready To Try New Things.

I know that you’ve been preparing yourself for this night. You have read books, listen to audio and you have attended seminars on how to thrill your partner with sex, that’s alright.


Your Wedding Night is the practical night.


Try all that you have learned so far, one of your moves can get your spouse yawning for more the rest on the time. You know what that means don’t you?


Cover The Room With Good Fragrance.

There’s so much a nice smelling environment can do to your romance. A sweet-smelling fragrance the say is “carried to the brain’s emotional center, and they help to stimulate emotions, memories, and mood”.

A good scent can help stimulate sexual urge. So fill the room with a nice scent, and good flowers and let the passion run wild.


Set The  Atmosphere With Good Music

Nice music can also do some wonders for your spouse’s sexual mood. So load some nice music in your music app and make sure they are your spouse’s favorite tunes and then let it flow as you lie on the bed with your love.

If possible stand and show your sexiest dance steps. The atmosphere will change to suit you.



If you really want to have a sexy wedding night, then you should get yourself prepared before night.

You can ask your friends about the idea, read books and watch the video.

Remember it comes once in a lifetime, so think of how to enjoy it better. And don’t try holding back to what your heart tells you.

Enjoy your wedding night.

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