One of the questions I get from my subscribers is this “I had a quarrel/ fight with my spouse and he has not been talking to me all the while- What should I do?’ How do I get my spouse talking again?
If you are among those that asked that question and you’ve been wishing to get your spouse talk to you again or listen to you after you had a little argument, then this post is specially written to help you get him talking again.
Some times in every marriage, there tends to be a time where couples quarrel and even fight each other. Unfortunately, that’s inevitable in every relationship.
But that doesn’t mean the marriage has failed, and I don’t think it is peculiar to your marriage either.
It is normal.
It is sincerely a normal and healthy thing when couples disagree or argue in so many things.
Remember both of you are two different people, from different families and sometimes different backgrounds.
So there are bound to be different opinions also. However, one thing you should know is that the way you act after the whole heated moments is what matters the most in making your marriage survive.
Probably, you realized he/she doesn’t want to talk to you again and you are thinking of how to get him to talk.
I have written some quick win steps that will help you do that.
Here is how!
How to make your husband talk to you again after a little fight?
1 Take time to ponder on why the fight happened:-
“This is a very important thing to do if your plan is to make peace and calm the situation.
Fights usually come when there is a misunderstanding or when there is an intentional or nonintentional mistake.
But, most times people cannot say for sure that this is what brought the fight, and sometimes also the cause of the issue is known, but no one wants to accept the responsibility.