Are you looking for ways to spice your marriage or relationship? Have you heard how many couples have used sexting to ignite passion back into their relationships, and you are looking for sexting examples to use personally? I have your back and am ready to show you some heartwarming sexting examples you’ll love dearly.
The truth is that whether you are just married today, a month old, or many years in marriage, you’ll sometimes have a need to spice things up in your relationship, and between you and your partner: these days, one of the best ways to do that is sext.
Years back, the act of sexting was seen as useless, or rather something that’s left for youth and teens: nowadays, it has become the most widely accepted way of spicing your relationship.
According to Drexel now, 8 people out of 10 people they surveyed agreed to sexting. Further investigation shows that there will be a sharp increase in the upcoming years. Again, the experts also found out that sexting has helped many partners achieve sexual satisfaction.
Well, if sexting has helped many other people to improve the quality of their relationships, as well as helping them achieve greater satisfaction sexually, I implore you to use it for the same results in your relationship. If you are not too sure where to start, then check out these sexting examples I selected for you.
I have done the most work for you here. All you do is just to copy and paste. But if you need to learn how to customize your sexting, I will also help you.
It is pretty easy to learn, and the good news is that you can customize it to match every moment needed. In this post, I will show you everything you need to know about the topic of texting, the good ways to text, and the general rules guiding you to have the optimal sexting experiences you need.
Let’s move forward.
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Before I show the sexting examples, let’s get ourselves acquainted with what sexting means.
What Is Sext?
The word sext or sexting is a combination of two special words, text and sex. It comprises two people (especially male and female) sending sex messages to each other. It also involves sending seminude or full nude pictures, or videos of you to your partner or your male or female friend.
There are many ways sexting can be carried out daily, – cell phones, text messaging, direct social media messaging, or any other messaging platforms. Anybody can sext, no matter the age. However, it is more prevalent in youths and teens, and a survey shows that as many as 17% of teens have sex, while around 28% have received it too.
How Sexting Helps Relationships:-
before we look at the sexting examples, let’s quickly look at how sexting can help relationships grow and mature faster. In a relationship, sex helps you to stay connected with your partner sexually, especially when you are not physically around.
Meanwhile, experts suggested that you should know the attachment styles you have with your partner before you know if sexting can help your relationship or kill it. Below are the known attachment styles in every relationship.
- “The anxiously attached people.” They don’t find it easy to relate to people because they are always afraid of rejection.
- “Securely attached people are not afraid to be abandoned. That’s why it is easy for them to get closer to people.
- “The avoidantly attached people are always uncomfortable to get close to people and so want to be on their own.
These three different people have their unique ways of responding to for example, the researchers have proved that avoidant or anxious attached people are very likely to participate in text. The anxious attached will more likely love to text the partner or friend when they are not around just to feel closer.
The avoidant person will use it as a way for sexual gratification, even as they avoid getting close to the other person for sex.
Having known all these, you should also make sure you know the rules of texting before you sext in the first place.
Below are The Rules for Sexting.
Rules for Sexting:
To use either of the sexting examples I will share with you, you must get accustomed to the sext rules below.
- Receive And Give Consent: As you read from the different examples of people’s ways of attachments, it is therefore important to seek consent before sending your sext. If your partner doesn’t like it, don’t send it to him/her.
- Don’t Share Your Partners Nude Pictures, or Videos Ever. Don’t share any video or sext your partner sent to you with anyone else. You may not like the outcome of it at last.
- Be Clear About Your Boundaries. It is important you discuss with your partner what they do or do not do with the sext after sending it. Do you want it deleted or archived? let your partner know beforehand.
- Protect Your Privacy. This is an important point to note. Always be sure of who you are sending your nude pictures to. My friendly advice to you is “Don’t send your nude picture to anyone you met a few months ago.
- Let It End There. Let everything you do end immediately after you are through with your sext; never use whatever your partner sent to you as a weapon or for blackmail purposes.
Sexting Examples: 65 Heartwarming Ways To Boost Your Marriage.
Sexting Example When You Just Started Dating:
- “I keep thinking about [insert sexual memory together]. It’s making me want to play with myself…are you free?”
2) “Come over and tell me if you think my bikini waxer did a good job?”
3) “I’m so excited about our date tonight. If you play your cards right, then you’re going to love what I’ve got planned for later.”
4) “Tonight I want to slowly kiss my way from your lips down… the only question is how far down will I go?”
5) I know last night was our first time, but I think I’m addicted to your dick already.”
6″I’m gonna wear my fuck-me heels for our date tonight.”
7) “What are you doing later? Mind if I drop by to blow you?”
8) “I want to capture your tongue with my lips, and feel my name reverberate in my mouth when you moan it as I make you cum.”
9) “Let’s act out your wildest fantasy when you come over.- Sexting examples
10) “When you come over later, don’t wear anything you don’t want me ripping off of you.”
11) “Come remind me if you’re as good in bed as I’ve been imagining.
12) “I keep thinking about [insert sexual memory together]. It’s making me want to play with myself…are you free?”
13) “Thinking about all the things I’d do to you is making it hard to work today.”
14) “Do you like it from behind? I sure do.”
15) “I’m going insane thinking about being inside you.’
16) “I can’t wait to see those gorgeous eyes/lips/legs of yours again.
18) “Let me show you what I learned in pole-dancing class.”
19) “I just got out of the shower. Help me get dirty again.”
20) “I don’t know how long I can wait until the next time you [insert sexual activity here].”
Sexting Example You Can Send To Your Partner:
21) “Let’s try something new tonight. Use your imagination because I’m yours.”
22) “. I know exactly what you want, and I’m going to give it to you if you’re lucky.”
23) “It’s too bad you’re not here right now because I would be all over you.”
24) “Let’s try something new tonight. Use your imagination because I’m yours.”
35) “I was just thinking about how good you looked in that shirt when you left this morning. I can’t wait to take it off tonight.”
26) ” Tonight I’m going to take off your clothes and kiss every part of you so slowly that you’re begging to take me.
27) “I know exactly what you want, and I’m going to give it to you if you’re lucky.”
28) “Bring home some Gatorade, because I’m giving you a workout tonight.”
29) ” I’m completely naked and thinking about you. Want a preview?”
30) “I want to feel you pressed against me and I pressed against the wall.”
31) “I’ve been working on some new yoga positions, and I can’t wait to show you how limber I am.”
32) “I was just thinking about how hot you [insert body part here] looked last night when you [insert sexual activity here]. “
33) “You’re just too good with your hands.”
34) ” I’m looking forward to the moment I slide inside you and feel you wrapped around me.”
35) “I’m going to make you show me how bad you want it.”
36) “You were so good to me last time. It’s my turn to return the favor.”
37) ” I’m aching to be touched by you. I can’t stand it.”
38) ” I’m not wearing any underwear. Just thought you should know.”
39) ” I’m wearing that lingerie you like just for you.”
40) “Thinking about how you feel inside of me has got me so hot right now.”
Sexting Examples For Her.
41) “I was thinking of buying some soft rope…should I get enough for your wrists and ankles or just your wrists? Let’s leave it up to me…”
41) “You weren’t given lips like that for anything. Get into high heels, put on some red lipstick, and let’s put them to good use?”
42) “Tonight is going to be all about you, baby. Just lay back and relax.”
43) “Do you care if my tongue is between your legs when you wake up in the morning?”
44) “Do you want to have sex in bed or the bath I just made you?”
45) “I cleaned the kitchen today, so I’d have room to fuck you on the table.”
46) “I stuck your clothes in the washer, and now I’m going to make out with you on top of it.”
47) “There is something that makes me crazy wet when you are standing right over me when we’re kissing.”
48) “Every time I close my eyes, I see you naked. But FYI, I like seeing you naked with my eyes open even more!”
49) “You would not believe what I dreamt last night! I was a fireman… and you were on fire… luckily I saved you with my firehose. Made you all wet, though…”
50) “If you were here right now, I would rip your clothes off and throw you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you’re not, so… rain-check?”
51) “I don’t like sitting here at work when I could be at home doing filthy things to you.”
52) “You are so much more than sex to me… even still… with each amazing episode, it just gets better and better.”
53) “Do you know that I spend my day thinking about you and my night dreaming about you?”
54) “I’d walk a thousand miles just to touch you tonight. And a thousand more if you let me kiss you all over.”
55) “I miss your sexy bedroom eyes. You make me melt and hard at the same time!”
56) “If kisses were raindrops, I would send you a flood. You’d need an ark.”
57) “Aren’t you exhausted? You’ve been running in my thoughts the whole day. Naked, most of the time.”
Sexting Examples When You Want To Share Fantasies:
58) “I just watched what might be my favorite porn video ever. Can I show it to you?”
59) “I saw this remote control vibrator at the store today, and I want to try it with you on our next dinner date.”
60) “I had a dream that we invited another guy into the bedroom with us, and I woke up so turned on.”
61) “Whenever I think about trying anal with you, I get excited.
62) “I woke up thinking about you after a dirty dream…”
Conclusion:
Sexts are a very good tool to reignite passion in your relationship. If you have been having a dead bedroom for a while now, I recommend sexting you today. Choose from the list of the sexting examples I selected for you. It will help you win again.
See you at the top.
I am still your in-house counselor, Murphyaik.