15 Things to consider when dating to marry

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In this post, I will show you the most important things to consider when dating to marry, so you understand exactly what to do or not do whenever you start dating.


Here’s why


Dating is a serious business, therefore you have to plan well in other to achieve your goal, which is marriage.


If after dating you didn’t get married, then you’ve not achieved your goal. To keep you abreast of all the future problems, here are things to consider when you are dating to Marry.


15 Things To Consider When Dating To Marry.


1) Dating is Not Marriage:-

Always have in your consciousness that dating is different from marriage. When you are dating, there’s always enough time to study the one you dating, to know if you are compatible with married.


If you discover the differences and reasons why you will take your relationship to another level, or quit, then nothing stops you.


In that case, you shouldn’t treat dating as a marriage. This will help you to keep the rules of dating as well as that of marriage.


Therefore take time to learn who you are dating, to know more about him/her, it will help you in the future.


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2) Be Your Complete Self:- 

I will not stop you from reading self-improvement books, that will be a good help to improve your self-esteem.


But when you are dating to Marry, it is important to keep yourself from the temperature of portraying to be who or what you are not.


Be everything you are created by God to be, do not add or subtract, don’t hide your feelings, or keep from sharing your mind because you are afraid of being rejected.


It’s better to find out everything now than later, maybe when you are finally married.

It may be disastrous then.


3) Take your time:-

You should know that marriage is really different from dating, so you should take your time to plan and be prepared for the new level of like to come, else you plan to Marry and divorce soon.


However, if you want to last in your marriage, then take your time to date before getting hooked up.


The duration of the dating doesn’t matter so much, what matters is how well you understand who you are planning to Marry.


That also determines the quality of the relationship you will have.


Take your time, examine, read, sturdy an,d finally understand him/her properly.


4)  premature marriage conversations are not important when you are dating to marry: 


Now you are in a relationship, it is imperative to avoid the premature marriage conversation like God said you must marry me, I will die if you leave me, etc.


Those words are not needed now. Concentrate on knowing how compatible you are and  How good and caring you would be is.


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5) Space is also Needed:-When you are dating, it’s imperative to know that you should give your date some space to be alone.


Have your time alone and let your partner have theirs too.


That will make him/her respect and desire you more. I t ‘s far better that way than spending 24 hours of your time together every day


6) Don’t Be Carried Away BY The Gifts:-

It’s good you give and receive gifts when dating so that person is thinking about you always. But understand that what matters most is if he/ she loves you too.


If you become carried away by the gifts, you can mistakes it for real love and care. Not all that glitters is gold.


Be wise, receive the gifts an,d still be at alert for the irregularities.


7) Lookout For The Red flags:-

It’s really really interesting to be positive always and it’s also good to be vigilant too.


The truth is that during dating, so many things will be hidden. If you are not careful, you’ll believe that all is well.


But, nothing can be hidden for so long. That’s why you should be on. The lookout for the red flags before you make the final decision to get married.


That will save you from future stress.


9) Good Advisers Will Help:- 

Although it’s always good to involve people in everything you do, really important to relate with the trusted people if you really have to involve people.


Good advisers could give you helpful advice that will save you from future mistakes.


Give ears to whatever advice y  get from them, they could show you some red flags you are not seeing and also tell you why you should make up. your mind quickly about the marriage.


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10) Be ready to quit any time:-

Always consider leaving the relationship whenever you see reasons ton


Don’t marry when you know you are not made for each other never assume your spouse will change when you are married. If he/she will not change now, 


It doesn’t matter how deep you’ve gone into a relationship, it’s better than getting a heartbreak later.


11) Don’t date someone you won’t marry.

It doesn’t matter who or what brought you together in the first instance  If he/she not good to be with, then c sider letting them go.


12) Don’t Share So much About You Too Soon:- 

Consider not sharing everything about you when dating, it is not good to reveal all about you almost immediately, no matter how fast he/she is getting close.


Just take your tour and do it gradually. Let yogurt look forward to knowing you more as you date. If possible, let him/ her be the one doing the discovery.



13) Dating and Marriage will bring you happiness forever:-

That’s not really true. In as much as there are some health benefits that come with being in a good relationship, there are also many others that are h py even without been in any relationship too.


So despite the pressure from family members  and friends to get married, it is imperative that you don’t rush into any


There’s a big difference between being lonely and being alone, but not can be compared with being unhealthy.


14) First Impressions Matters:-

It’s important to make a lasting impact during your day. always do something positive t t your date will always remember you for.


 It’s important you be yourself when dating. Again do not be moved by how your date presents himself. However, if you are not relaxed by their attitudes, run. 


15) Consider kind of a partner you need:-This is really important when you are dating to marry, and it will make you know what to look for as you date.


Truth is that when you know where you are going, then you know how to get there faster.  Be specific about how you want your future family to be and start working to have it from this initial relationship you are having now.




In conclusion, be careful now you are dating to know if the relationship is what you really want.


If you watch your steps now, you’ll surely not stumble in your future relationship. in other word give all your strength to your outing and learn all you can about your prospective wife/ husband.



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AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers have been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed by coming to this site.


AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers have been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed by coming to this site.

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