In this post, you will learn how to be happily single as you expect your soulmate to come someday.
Have you ever thought about what will keep you happy now that you are still single? There’s really no reason to feel frustrated because no one is proposing to you or because you lost your relationship to divorce.
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You can really be single and be happy. Being single is not hell as people portray it and it is not the end of the road either.
Although it could be disheartening when your friends are getting married; but you can really stay happily single until you find your soul mate.
Below are a few ways to keep yourself happy until you are married.
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Dear, in as much as I am praying fervently that your soulmate comes soon, Let me also show you why you should not be depressed by your current status.
I am pretty sure that after reading this part of my article, you will be convinced that you are still honored to be single. That will give you the courage to quit wasting time dwelling on single status.
” Every woman in her late 20s goes through a period where she just doesn’t believe love is out there anymore, but it is. And I think the minute you stop looking for it is when it comes to you.”
From Kristen Bell.
And your partner will surely come one day, but before they come.
Understand that as a single you still have the chance to.
– Learn New Things:
Since you are alone, you have the chance to learn to do many things on your own, which includes cooking, washing, fixing your devices, taking up new language lessons.
Do make good use of this time to learn whatever skills you want because you may not have the opportunity when you are married.
– You Have Uncluttered Mind:
It is no joke that it takes time to maintain a committed relationship. Susan Winter, a well-known author says that ” intimacy and partnership takes up a lot of spaces in our head”
Although we do so unconsciously but consider what it takes to think about your partner, your children, your little fights with your partner, and how to take care of your relationship generally and you will know what it’s like.
Truly, you do a lot of thinking too as a single, but it is more when you are married.
– You Can Save Good Time:-
It takes couple a lot of times and works to make their relationships successful. They put in tremendous efforts to achieve that. I mean the phone calls, text messages, taking care of the family in general.
When you calculate all the time, it’s enough to do other interesting things.
As a single, you have more time to yourself.
– You’ll Be More Focused:
Now you know that you are not answerable to anyone, therefore you should know how to take proper care of what matters more to you.
Being single makes things clearer to you and just as it was discovered in the latest research ” experiencing something alone results in your brain having a clearer and lasting memory.”
– You Still Have Your Time:
Obviously, being married looks as though you have some Cops watching your every move. You wouldn’t have much time for yourself because you have many things to think about your partner and children.
However, as a single, those are not important to you, so you have ample time to think and fend for yourself.
According to Dr. Dardashli, ” many people say at the time they are in a relationship, they have lost themselves.” The reason is that they stopped doing things independently.
Being single gives you the opportunity to focus on developing yourself better.
Having more time for yourself will help you increase your creative thinking. You’ll think faster and deeper when you don’t have many things to think about rather than yourself and your most pressing needs.
Now you know that being single is a blessing of its own, let’s look at how to be happily single.
7 Weird Tips On How To Be Happily Single.
1) Don’t Rely On What You Think:-
It is imperative you know that there’s still room for you to get hooked up someday. Therefore try and zero your mind from all your thoughts that all the good men have been taken.
The truth is that there are still chances for you to get marry.
Try pushing those negative thoughts from your mind, instead, speak positive words to yourself. I have composed some self-love affirmations you can use to recreate your mind for better results.
2 Accept Where You Are Currently:
The truth is that you are single and unless it happens at the moment, you will still be single. Therefore, you have to accept that fact in your brain and keep yourself happy until your Mr/Mrs comes.
Don’t feel so frustrated and stressed when your friends are getting married or when you are being pressured by your family members.
Learn to enjoy where you are at the moment and take advantage of it to add value to yourself.
When you look around, you will see reasons to be happy. It is not the end of the road and believes me when I told you that there light at the end of the tunnel.
3) Focus On Being Your Best Self:
Being single gives you the opportunity to care more about yourself and devote yourself to making your dream and visions come true. So you should engage yourself with those meaningful goals you have.
Devote more time to yourself and do what you love to do best. Understand who you are and what brings the utmost joy to you and then give more time to them.
Learn new things, find new hobbies, enroll in learning a new language and cooking skills. You will find happiness doing all these.
4) Learn To Encourage Yourself:
If you keep thinking about your single status you will not move on with other life matters.
Things will be a little better when you know how to encourage yourself. Don’t wait until people pat you in the back to be happy. Always remember that things can change any minute.
Speak life to yourself on a daily bases and also reward yourself for all your little achievements.
5) Forget Your Past And Move On
Sometimes the pains of our past keep you unhappy and depressed. To move on, you really have to forget what happened in your past relationships and pursue new love.
Dr. Taitz says that ” so many people ate afraid of their past and can’t think positively about finding love again.” He also advised you to try everything there is to avoid being hunted by your past relationship experiences or your Ex.
If possible, erase anything that reminds you of it. Unfollow then on social media, delete their contacts, and destroy the pictures.
Again, do not compare your past relationship or ex with the new one. Start on a new page.
6) Treat Yourself Often:
Treat yourself as though you are the only one on earth. The truth is that your happiness is in your hand. Live your life to the maximum and concentrate on what makes you happy. Travel all over the world if you can, visit five-star hotels for your breakfast and just enjoy your life.
7) Reconnect With Your Best Pals:
As a single, you have the chance to meet and your friends. There will be no chance like that when you are married, so use this opportunity to connect with them they may be the help you need to succeed in life before marriage.
Understand that you have the best opportunities to have the type of life you want now that you are single.
Using these points I listed here, you’ll be able to stay happily single until your soulmate comes.
Till then, keep improving yourself. Find new opportunities, hobbies, and treat yourself better. Encourage yourself and mostly love yourself.
These are your key recipes for being happily single.