If you are reading this post now, then it’s because you are looking for how to stop your marital crisis and build a life together as couple.
The good news is that I will teach you everything I know about how to make your relationship great once again.
Marriage is not a child’s play, it takes, so much work and commitment to make it work. If you have been married for a while now, then you know what I am saying.
If you are planning to get married soon, then let me let you know that it takes effort for marriage to work perfectly.
I don’t mean to frighten you, but just to let you know what to expect as you enter the marriage market.
The truth is that engagement is fantastic and planning for your wedding makes you feel on top of the world, meanwhile what happens after those initial stages is what matters.
That is the time to show your commitment to your marriage. At this time, so many things will want to derail your relationship. There will be pressure against your relationship, and experts made us understand that even if you love each other so much, marriage is still not easy.
Married life raises all kinds of challenges daily. This is where both of you become accountable for making your relationship work.
So Why Is Marriage So Hard?
1) Because You Are Two Different People?
A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.”
– Dave Meurer.
Let’s face it, you know that you and your partner are two different people. You have different personalities, different lifestyles, religions, and sometimes different ethnic groups.
That makes it hard for you to avoid troubles. You must have different opinions, different hobbies, and different perceptions.
Marriage experts said the presence of fights and quarrels doesn’t mean that your marriage has failed. It is only making you strong.
2) You Speak Different Language
This is Another reason marriages fail. Communication is important in every relationship and effective communication is more important.
most of the problems in marriage stem from the inability to read each other’s body language.
When you find it hard to understand your partner’s body language, there will be miscommunication. To avoid it, try and know each other well and you can read your body language effectively.
3) Unrealistic Expectations:
Having high expectations is better than low expectations, but when you expect more than your partner or marriage can offer, it causes problems.
A result from the survey conducted in 2005 by the National Fatherhood initiative shows that 45% of respondents sighted unrealistic expectation to be the reason for their divorce.
If your marriage is experiencing some problems, or challenges right now, consider your expectations, it may be the reason.
Check the list of marriage unrealistic expectations.
- My marriage will make me happy.
- I will be complete when am married.
- Your spouse must make you happy.
- You will change your partner when the Time Comes
- You love each other and will not fight.
- All your needs must be met by your partner.