Do you want to create a happier relationship? Do you want to have a lasting and passionate relationship?
If you answer yes to these questions, then you are in for a big threat, because in this post, I will reveal to you easy steps to create a happier relationship, just like you’ve ever wanted.
Research shows that over 50% of marriages/relationships are resulting to divorce monthly, simply because many couples overlooked the importance of nurturing their marriage on a daily bases.
However, if you wish to improve your marriage/relationships, if you desire to have more love in your life, then get yourself a cup of tea or coffee to relax your nerves as I reveal these 4 easy steps that will. help you to be happier in a relationship.
If you are ready, then let’s get started.
How To Be Happier In A Relationship: Step One
Quit The Wrong Relationship Earlier::-
Although this may sound terrible to hear, the truth still remains that some relationships can’t be fixed no matter how hard you try, and since you want to be happier in your relationship, your first step should be to extricate yourself from such.
Sometimes we see ourselves in a relationship where we seem more miserable instead of being happy, the type of relationship where you know in your heart from the onset that it’s not going to work out, yet you continue to stick around hoping that one day there’ll be a change.
Here’s my sincere advice
The more you waste time waiting for the wrong person to change, the less time you’ll have left to find the right person – simply put, leave the wrong relationship once you realize you are not compatible.
And you must have in mind that no relationship or rather nobody is indispensable.
You will still be opportune to get into a better relationship when you give up the unproductive one.
One of the greatest problems we have is the inability to grasp when the person we trust so much stops adding values to us, but here are few signs to know when to really quit.
When You Lose All Your Trust:–
Trust is one of the ingredients of a successful relationship and so when is compromised, everything ceases to be the same again.
You can take years to establish trust, but second to destroy it, therefore it is imperative you build your life around those you find trustworthy, genuine, reliable and those that are concerned about your happiness.
When you feel you can’t rely on your partner again from the beginning of your relationship, then quit.
- You Feel Sad When You See Them:– If you feel unsettled when they come around you and they no longer bring joy to you like before, then it may be a red flag.
- Addiction:- Whether its drugs, gambling, alcoholic, addiction remains bad especially if it’s affecting your health. Be quick to understand when it’s not conducive for you anymore and runs.
- When You Grow Apart From Each Other:- This is a normal occurrence in every relationship, however, when it happens at the beginning of the relationship, that may be a clear sign to run.
I know that it is not that easy to quit a relationship, but you will. feel. sorry for your letter if you fail to little listen to those early signs.
So here’s how to overcome it earlier.
Just reassure yourself that everything happens for a reason, period.
How To Be Happier In A Relationship: Step Two)
Discover Your Hidden Love Languages:-
It’s never possible for you and your partner to have the same love language. That’s always the main issue in any relationship.
There are 5 love languages and you. must know which explains you in other to strike balance in your relationship.
What exactly is a love language and how does it affect your relationship?
Love Languages can be described as different ways couples express their love for Each other, as well as how they can nurture and heal their relationship.
Like I said earlier, there are five different love languages according to the marriage experts and I will take time to explain them one after the other.
Gary Chapman in his book called the five love languages explained that people usually experience the love language in different ways and that it can ultimately cause confusion an conflicts among them.
Let’s take a look at the five love, so we can understand how it helps us to be happier in a relationship.