If you are getting married today with the aim of being happy, then you will be totally disappointed with what I am going to write in this post, because your marriage is not about your happiness.
Of course, marriage can bring some of those happy moments into your life, but you must believe me when I told you that marriage is not about your happiness.
Here is why I said. so
Dear, whether you like it or not, marriage will surely cost you so much than you think of. Yes, you will spend so much on what you have in mind right now.
Well, you have planned to spend or have spent so much money on buying a ring or having a big wedding.
But Money can’t buy Joy
But, am not talking about money here, I am talking about those things money can’t buy. Have you ever thought of all those things you need to do to be sure your relationship is still intact? those time you will need to go hungry so that your family will have three square meal.
From that little example, you’ll agree with me that money is just an insignificant part of it, especially when want to have a successful relationship.
I am talking about the time, the sacrifices you have to make, the thinking of how to fend for your family.
Sharing a life with someone is definitely about not just your own happiness. It becomes more about our happiness than either one person and both should definitely be happy as well.
While personal happiness is important, marriage, and really, any relationship in general is about sacrificing parts of your happiness and your time to ensure the other person is where they need to be. Without this, the relationship is bound to fail.