There are so many things that can make any girl get married to the wrong man. This post is as regards to many questions I get from my readers lately.
No woman wants to get married to the wrong man, in fact, every woman avoids that like a bomb, but if your reasons to get married and your choices are related to what I will describe in a minute, then you are planning for yourself the worse relationship ever.
Marrying the wrong person is what everyone hates to do. people try everything they could to avoid it, yet so many people end up falling into the arms of the wrong partner.
Here are the reasons.
Why you will marry the wrong man
1 When all you want is money:-
Getting married to a rich man or woman is good because you are sure that your needs will be met, but, if you make it criteria that only a rich guy or lady will marry you, then you are making a big mistake.
You must also know that you’ll never be a priority to that rich husband because his life work will definitely be there before you unless you’ll want to be the number 3 in his list of priorities.
A rich guy /lady will not want to display his romantic side to you because he knew too well that he can buy his way to your heart, he can shower you with gifts, but have you thought about what he does on those long business trips?
well you want money and other women out there want the same, so don’t be jealous he throws the same money around the other women.
2 You are pressured by friends and family:–
It may be true that your family members or friends are pressuring you to get married, but understand that marriage is not a day job, it is a lifetime thing and so you really have to take a deep breath and think about the decision you want to take.
Never rush into marriage because anyone told you to, do what you think is right for you, ask yourself if really you are ready to take that step if the choice you are making is the right thing for you.
Remember, when things start crumbling down, those friends and family may not be there to comfort you.