What are the characteristics of a loving man? How do you know a loving man from a distance?
Every single lady is praying to get married someday, and their wish is to be married to a good man, romantic man, caring man, and a loving man: the married also wish that their husband will also be the best too. Who doesn’t want a good thing?
The problem is that no man has the inscription of those attributes on his forehead and there is no black magic to help you know that. But there are a few characteristics which you’ll see and something in you will know that you have found a loving man or a good man.
In this post, we will be looking at those characteristics of a loving man; that will help you to identify a loving man and caring man from the public when you see one. However, you must become be a loving wife to attract a loving husband.
If you also planned to be a loving wife, then follow these steps to locate a loving man.
The 8 characteristics of a loving man to note now.
1) The Loving Man Is Caring:
A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside.
Denis Waitley.
One of the core characteristics of a loving man is that he is also a caring man. There is a quote that “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” And yes everyone is looking for someone to care for them, and I know you do two.
Caring is the lifestyle of a loving man and he does that naturally, and sometimes without giving second thoughts to that. But the question is how can you know a caring man.
Signs Of A Caring Man:
- He takes good care of you.
- Your happiness is his chief priority.
- He knows how to make your special days special indeed.
- He enjoys spending time with you.
- He is somehow possessive.
- You feel important when you are with him.
- You are also secure with him.
- Curious about your interests.
- He enjoys being with your family and friend.
When you see all these traits in that man that hangs around you always, then you have found the man who is loving.
2) He Is An Honest Man:
Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.
Another characteristic of a loving man is “honesty.” Well everybody wants to deal with an honest person. We want honest brothers, sisters, friends, and leaders. The truth is honestly is important in every relationship.
You need a man that will tell you the truth and be open every time. An honest man will never lie to you, hide the truth from you or misdirect or omit something important purposefully.
Is that the time of man you are looking for? Then put that in your mind as you search for your partner. Below are a few other traits of an honest man to look for.
- They don’t exaggerate.
- They have empathy for others.
- You can’t see them gossiping behind others.
- They don’t fail on their promises.
- The words and their actions match with each other.
- Transparency is their watchword.
3) He Is A Home Maker:
The homemaker has the ultimate career. All other careers exist for one purpose only – and that is to support the ultimate career.
C. S. Lewis.
The next characteristics of a loving man are their abilities to make a home. A homemaker is someone that takes proper care of his or her head. The joy and the beauty of every home depend solely on the home maker.
The homemaker spouse will maintain and manage his home with both human resources and material resources to make sure that his home is well. He is intelligent, and knows what to do when the family needs help.
If your husband or boyfriend possess these qualities, don’t play with them, because such person is hard find.
3) He’s A Gentleman.
A perfect gentleman is every lady’s dream, and it’s one of the characteristics of a loving man. If you are lucky to have a loving man as a partner, you are already enjoying your heaven on earth.
A gentleman is a man of conduct or virtue. He is someone who can treat you with respect. He will also not want you to be angry or sad.
Here are a few other reason you need a gentleman.
- He never talks too much or gossip.
- He knows that everything worth having is worth working for.
- A gentleman is not arrogant.
- Respects people.
- Is a friend to many.
When you get such a person, you are sure he will never lift his hands on you or abuse you. An arrogant man will make you miserable in your relationship, that’s why you should be careful.
4) A loving Man Is Supportive.
“The best possible thing you can get out of a relationship is that you’re with someone who encourages you to be the best version of yourself every day.”
~Nishan Panwar
If you are talking about the characteristics of a loving man without mentioning his supportive qualities, then you haven’t started. A loving man can not be separated from this character.
Nothing makes a relationship successful than having a supportive partner; someone who will love you unconditionally also is by your side always. A supportive partner will help you build your confidence when you are in your lowest moment.
The truth is that if you have a supportive husband, then you are sure your need will always be met. Bellow are other qualities of a supportive partner.
- He is encouraging.
- Makes you feel important and respected.
- They will allow you to make your choice.
- He is a good listener.
Supportiveness is very essential in every relationship because it helps you to build a great bond and a stable relationship. A none supportive partner will make your life full of resentment and discouragements.
5) The Loving Man Is Always Quick To End An Argument.
You’ll also know a loving man because of his promptness in resolving issues in your relationship. He may not be the cause of the problems or want to win the argument, instead, he’ll find a way to quickly bring the argument to a stop; this is because he won’t like the argument to longer and cause other problems to your marriage.
According to relationship experts, couples must be fast in resolving their conflicts to avoid “long-lasting memory” which does not benefit relationships. The loving hub and or man knows this principle well, and they won’t like to go against it.
He is not doing this due to laziness, he is doing so because he won’t want to hurt your feeling or your relationship.
6) He Always Wants To Suprise You:
Another important characteristic of a loving man you must be on the lookout for is how he loves to brighten your day. According to Beaver, if your husband, boyfriend, or spouse still go out of his ways to do the thing that will make you happy daily, then he is a loving man or husband.
It is not about buying expensive gifts for you or depositing a large sum of money into your account. It is about doing those little things he knows that will captivate you and make you happy.
It may be a little flower, buying a cup of ice cream, washing the dishes, or just reminding you of the good old days. That’s what a loving husband loves to do.
7) Someone Who Wants To Make You Feel Protected:-
When a man shows you that he wants you to feel safe, protected, and loved, you must know that he is coming from the angel of affection. For example, he helps you to carry things that he feels are heavy for you, calls you at will to know where you are and how safe you are, he won’t allow anyone to hurt you.
He has your back in everything and at all times. Those are the ways to show you that he cares about you.
8) He Loves You:-
Above all the characteristics of a loving man is that he loves you with all his heart and mind; that is where the name “loving man” came from. “Love covers a multitude of sins.” The man that loves you will not want to hurt you at all.
He is also committed to you and your relationship. His thought is always on how to make your relationship successful, but mostly on how to make you happy and comfortable.
Although he is bound to make mistakes, yet he strives daily to be the best man for you.
Final Thought:-
Nobody is perfect, so don’t expect to find a man that has these qualities all at once. If you can see a few of them, you know you have seen the man that will love and cherish you forever.
Remember that the man is also a human being, so don’t expect highly from him. Remain blessed as you search, or work to be a loving wife to your loving husband.
See you at the top.
I am still your in house counselor, Murphyaik.