Out of everything in this life, everyone’s priority should be to be happy at home, after going through the day’s hurdles and stress.
Here’s What our home should be
- Our home should be a place to reside and also feel that you belong there
- where you feel relieved immediately you walk through the door.
- A place where your loved ones live.
- A place where you are well treated.
If these things do not describe your home, then you really need to read this post carefully.
The survey shows that many people prefer to hang out with friends more than going home.
The reason is that they are not happy at home, their home is not conducive for them.
If you are one of those described here, then you really need to create an enabling environment in your home now.
Samuel Johnson the Rambler said in his quote that ” To be happy at home is the ultimate result of the ambitions, the end which every enterprise and labor trends”.
In this post, I will show you what to do to be happy at home.
Interesting ways to be happy at home.
Put your house in order:–
one of the reasons people run away from their home is simply because they are not happy at home and the reason for their unhappiness is because their home is not safe for them.
Making your house safe simply means doing whatever is required to making your home comfortable for you, your partner and your children.
Most people especially men sometimes prefer to hang out with friends till midnight, because they are not in good relationship with their wives. But that’s not the best thing to do.
If only you could make your home pleasing, them you’ll always love to be home.
If you are not sure of what to do, then follow the steps below.
1) Makeup with your partner:–
It’s not bad when you and your partner quarrel or fight, but there’s a need to settle the dispute immediately, never let it pang a little longer else it will a disconnect.
Stop using silent treatment or staying out late in the night to punish her. The best you could do for the benefit of your marriage is to settle the argument immediately Considering wrong or right wouldn’t help.
Acknowledge Your Own role in the fight and seek a way to deal with it at once.
2) Again raise your children well:–
It is important to raise children, but it is more important to raise a self-disciplined child.
Stubborn children make their home uncomfortable. They can make you want to run away from your home. Though one shouldn’t run away because of his / their children, it’s impatient you take time in disciplining then for the future.
Disciplining a child means training them to be responsible and have self-control. If you are consistent in disciplining your children, your children will grow up learning about consequences and how to take responsibility for their personal actions.
The main aim of this to empower the child to learn how to manage their feelings as well as their behavior.
If you have been to a home where there are stubborn children, you will understand what am talking about. But when your children are well behaved, you’ll always feel relaxed when you are at home or when people visit you.
And finally, you must always keep your home clean and neat every time. ” cleanliness they are next to godliness” the way your house looks and how clean it is can always make you want to go home.
You don’t have to make it look like the those seen on magazines,
But just make it a point of duty to tidy up everywhere neat.
Wash up the dishes after the meals.
Do your laundry on a daily basis to avoid clothes littering everywhere, after bathing, clean the bathroom.
Also, try to make your bed every morning when you wake up. Keep the toilet clean after use and if it’s possible, use a nice scent to make everywhere smell good.
All these will make you happy every time you are home.