It’s possible to be under the same roof, sleep in the same bed and yet the loves you share with your wife have depreciated a great deal.
But, to make any marriage work properly, you must try everything you should to make your wife fall in love with you again.
I believe you have heard the quote “Happy wife happy home”. That simply means that your marriage happiness depends on how happy your wife is.
The reason is that when a woman is happy, she’ll want to do more for her husband and family.
Check out this quote from Deborah Carr ” I think it comes down to the fact that where a wife is satisfied with her marriage, she tends to do a lot more for her husband which has a positive effect on his life”
What professor Deborah Carr was trying to let us know is that women provide enough emotional and practical supports to their partner unlike men.
This is the reason you should try all there is to her love you better.
The fact is that you are so lust in the sea as to what you should do to make her fall in love with you especially this season
But, I am here to help you, and here are few things you should start doing from this moment on
1 Get surprise Gifts for her: – One day, I overheard my wives friend telling her about an ice cream she enjoyed so much, and from my wives eyes, I saw the desire to have a taste of that ice cream someday.
The next day, as I was coming back from work, I bought the same ice-cream for her and I got the warmest embrace ever in my life.
I was very happy about her excitement. Those little gestures makes them fall in love again and again.
You can try the same thing, buy her gifts, take her out without planning it.
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2 Admire and respect her: – Every woman needs respect and admiration just like the men do. Admiration goes hand in hand with appreciation, esteem and respect, and all of these describes how you cherished your wife those times you were still trying to get her attention.
Those times you were dating her, you were trying all you could to get her attention; but where has all those feelings gone? What happened? you have given up on dropping love notes, kissing her good-bye when she is leaving for work
If your wife doesn’t feel appreciated or loved, you may be heading to a broken marriage. This article is just to let you understand that it is important to go back to square one and bring those feelings back again.
Here are few steps to guide you.
a Get her breakfast on bed
b Cuddle and kiss her often.
c Tell her you feel great to be her husband
d Speak good about her to others
e have date nights
3 Be her best friend: – Many people argue that it is better to have someone outside than your spouse.
But to me they didn’t know that your best friend is who you can spend time and share secret with.
From records, having your partner as your best friend has proven to work perfectly. Here what this quote says. ” Being in love is an amazing thing. Being in love with your! best friend is everything “. To be your wives best friend means to be free minded with her, share things in common with her and to support her.
Make her feel relaxed and secured any time she is with you. In that way she will fall in love with you again.
4 Trust her completely: – Trust is important in every relationship. It is the best gift of every loving marriage.
Trust creates deeper love, security and safety in every relationship. One major reason for breakups is lack of trust.
But, your wife feels secured and loved when she understands that you trust her completely and you also give her the chance to understand and love you better.
5 Recognize all she is doing for the family: your wife will love you more when you recognize and appreciate those little things she is doing in the family. It feels somehow when no one shows appreciation when you deserve it.
So from today on, if you haven’t been giving attention, then start it.
Those house cleaning, dish washing, cooking, etc, see them and say thanks, that will make her do more..
5 Be honest and transparent: – In every successful marriage /relationship, these two things must be present.
Honesty is all about saying the truth, while transparency is being open with all your facts .Your wife prefers if you tell her the truth about you and be open with her during conversation. That will make her respect you more.
6 Pray with her and for her: – During your devotion, hold her hands, call her names and tell God everything you want Him to do for her. This will make her understand how you care about her and give her reasons to love you more.
7 Support her:- There are times when your wife needs encouragement from you, may be she is passing through a difficult task, your support can make things take a different shape to her.
When you are supportive to her, your attitude and actions will show that you believe in her.
8 Provide for her: -In 1 Timothy 5 verse 8 ,God gave us the responsibility of providing for our wives and family. She has so many needs and will want you to meet them, it is your duty as a man look for those needs and meet them. You can go on and ask her. But have in mind that she will love you more when she realize how faithful and committed you are to meet her most important need
9 Love her dearly: – If you want your wife to love you the way you want, then you must love her first.
Every woman understand clearly when their husband love her. So show her love and she will definitely reciprocate.
10.Always be positive: – There are times when everything will look absurd. May be the finance is not enough to sustain the family. All you can do to make your wife fall in love is to stand your ground that things will be OK and that you are coming out of it strong.
Never bend your neck in despair, but increase the springs in your steps and let her know that you know everything will be OK.
Finally:- Love , peace and joy are the main ingredients for a successful relationship. Don’t let it go out of your marriage, don’t say ” My wife should love me better than I love her ” Remember what you give is what you get in return.
Seek to love your wife as commanded to you by God in His word and your wife will love you in return.
I am still your friend Murphyaik.
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