4 Ways To Capture Your Husbands Heart Again

We are all aware of the alarming increase in family problems and break up of marriages. If you haven’t, then tune up your television now and I bet the news will hit your ears immediately.

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Everyone has a reason why they chose to get married to their partner, One  of the reasons is the expectations to live happily with their better half for a long time, have children, and enjoy all that life can offer.

However, one imminent reason that made people marry is because they expect to grow with  each other, until you become successful in your relationship together.

Non ever thought or expected that one day he/ she will file for divorce in court against your partner.


Obviously, I really feel bad when I see young couple that are separated or  that are staying under the same roof and yet not relating well as couples.

There are thousands of them like that.

As a woman, you have a big role to play in making your marriage successful.
And in this post I will show you how you can influence your husbands heart and make him love you so much this Christmas season.

It’s really up to you to make your husband and your marriage feel nice.


Here are 5 things you should do to capture your husbands heart again.


1) Respect him more:-

The most important way any woman can influence his husbands heart this Christmas season is to respect him more. This is every man’s greatest need.

Rick Johnson in his book said that “every man values respect from his wife more than he values love”.
And one of the ways you can show respects to your hubby is to frequently reassuring him how much you appreciate him especially whenever he does something you like.


Doing that makes every man feel strongly and on top of the word, because they hear such often and believe me men feel great whenever the wife recognizes his good deeds.

Secondly, Always focus on your husbands good deeds. Most women only recognize their husbands little mistakes.

They immediately forget everything you have done correctly when you miss one step.
However, to influence his heart this Christmas season ask God to give you grace to see only his good side.


2) Make him your priority:-

One of my readers told me that one of her best ways of keep her marriage red hot is making her husband first and the children second.

Fact is that you must love your children but give more attention to your husband, because one day the children will all go leaving just you and your husband all alone in the house.

Here is how Giuliana Rancic an e Reporter described it “if you want your marriage last forever then you have to make your husband first, because marriage isn’t a joke”

Always remember that the best gift you can give to your children is a healthy relationship. So learn how to accommodate each other and display in front of your kids that you are each others favorite.

If you’ve not been putting your spouse first, this is the time to start, because that’s the only sure way to keep your marriage successful when your kids are gone.


3) Learn to elevate him:-

Give him a shoulder to stand tall everywhere you go. Don’t be the type of woman that belittles her husband.
Probably you thought you are more educated or you have a better job that pays you better and now you can talk to him the way you want anytime anywhere.


A good woman is always proud of her husband no matter what. She makes her friends respect her husband even without seeing him.

And a happy husband is man who is always confident that his wife is proud of him all the time. He is sure because his wife makes it a point of duty to reassure him every time.


4) Get some perfect Christmas gifts for him:-

If you really want capture your husbands heart this Christmas, then you’ll need to get some perfect Christmas gifts for him.
Look for what he likes or hope for and get it for him. He will love you more for that.


Finally use this Christmas to capture your husbands heart. you will not regret what impact it can bring to your relationship.


I am still your friend murphyaik.

See you at the top.




25 Romantic Merry Christmas wishes for your wife

If you are looking for  romantic Merry Christmas wishes for your wife, then you’ll get tremendous seasons wishes in this post

Christmas season is the time to share glad tidings with your loved ones.

As a good husband, if your wife means everything to you, then this Christmas should be a time to show special love to her by sending her romantic  merry Christmas wishes.
It is a great opportunity for you to express how you feel about her in this occasion of great joy.


Share the “delight of the Christmas spirit“with your darling wife with these lovely romantic Christmas wishes I listed in this post.


Here they are.

 25 Romantic Merry Christmas wishes for your wife

1) This Christmas is all about the good memories we share together, the great moments that we have loved together. Merry Christmas my darling!


2) Every moment I’ve shared with you is Worth remembering and may Christmas season bring lots of joy and happiness and more of glorious time together that will always be in our mind. Merry Christmas my darling wife!


3) Important dates will not make sense to me if it was not spent with you. This Christmas will be the best to me because I’m celebrating it with the love of my life. Merry Christmas my darling wife.


4) May I use the opportunity to tell you that you are so special. Every season of Christmas reminds me that I have someone very special to celebrate with. I love you so much. Merry Christmas my wife.


5) Merry Christmas to you my darling wife. We always share special times together and there’s no need to change anything about the life we spend together. You are so awesome !


6) The way to take care of me makes me feel secured and I feel so sure with your love. I wish God will give us many more years to spend together. I will forever love you my wife. Merry Christmas my darling wife!


7) In this life, only three words could really express what I feel about you, they are ” happiness, love and life” You are the love of my life and I wish you Merry Christmas my darling wife!


8) The life we share together keeps blossoming everyday and I am grateful to God for the opportunity to share this holiday with someone so amazing like you. Merry Christmas my darling wife.


9) God loves me so much and gave giving me someone to cherish dearly
God must be loving me so much,For He gave me a person, who will I cherish dearly and I will be part of her forever. Merry Christmas my darling!



10 This Christmas, I am sending you million kisses and 100 folds of cuddles because I love you so much. Merry Christmas my darling wife!


11) Knowing and loving you is the greatest gifts I have ever received. Any time we are together it feels like the magic of Christmas always. Merry Christmas my wife!


12) I am so blessed because since you became part of me, the joy of Christmas has always been in my heart!

13) Years ago I was so blessed just because you accepted to marry me. It is my humble pleasure to wish you a Christmas that’s filled with love, joy and fun. Merry Christmas dear!

14) May you have a wonderful Christmas this year. I wish that all of your dreams come true. I love you and Happy holidays!


15) This feeling is original and will last forever. This Christmas Eve we will kiss under a sky full with stars that will witness our love. Merry Christmas.”


16) “To the most wonderful wife, you have completely changed my life. My wish for you this Holiday Season, is for love and peace to surround you. Merry Christmas and a Prosperous New Year, My Dear Wife”


17) “Being a woman, I know how fragile you are. I treat you with so much gentleness and compassion. With your simplicity, I have fallen deeply in love with you. You are my wife and forever you’ll be. Merry Christmas!”


18) “One of the most memorable moments in life is spending Christmas with you my wife. I wish you a merry Christmas”


19) “May joy, harmony, goodwill and love fill our home this Christmas, and may God continue to bless our happy marriage. Merry Christmas, My Love”.


20) “You’re there to make me smile You’re there to make my life worth while Looking at me with care and love You will always be my darling wife. Merry Christmas”.


21) “Heaven has sent me an angel from above, to brighten my days and cheer up my life. I still don’t know what I did to deserve her, but I’m thankful to call her my wife. Merry Christmas, My Darling”.


22) “As the spirit of Christmas is upon us, and the New Year slowly approaches, I want to take time to thank you for your love, for your selfless and kind nature. May your Christmas be blessed, My Dear”


23) “At first, it was you and me against the world. Then the world realized we were meant for each other. Let’s celebrate this love by having a great Christmas together”,


24) “You’re there to make me smile You’re there to make my life worth while Looking at me with care and love You will always be my darling wife. Merry Christmas”.


25) “It is really puzzling how you were able to fit inside my heart. Trust me that there is no space left for another girl. I love you so much. Merry Christmas”.


Hope you enjoyed these 25 Interesting romantic merry Christmas wishes for your wife. Please, go ahead and send them to her. It will definitely add more color to her Christmas.


Please, share this post with your friends and families.

I am still your friend Murphyaik.
Remain blessed.


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Most Common Marriage Myths Demystified.

We spend time to learn and master our jobs, our studies and other things, but we have never thought of learning about marriage/ relationship.

The only little knowledge we get sometimes are earned through the hard ways.


The little things we learn about marriage are just the one we got from relatives and most times they are not enough to guide us throughout our days in marriage,

To understand what marriage is really all about and how you can make your marriage successful, then you should read this post


Trouble is that those things we learned from them are either wrong or non-beneficial or may be half baked for our relationship and they are the “myths of marriage”.


They can only be compare to those stories we usually tell to ourselves that are also partially wrong or at best wrong also.


In this post I will show you the most common Myths of marriage, and after reading this, you should be able to know what stories you tell to yourself, because the stories you tell yourself sincerely determines how you think and act.


This may be the little tool you require to be successful in your relationship/ relationship.



    Common Marriage Myths Demystified.


Marriage Myth 1)


Marriage shouldn’t be this hard, and if it’s this hard, maybe we shouldn’t be together.
That’s exactly one of the most interesting stories of marriage. People think happy marriage just happens.


I sometimes hear people say they only want to get married so they become happy forever.

To them, marriage will give them all the joy they crave for in life, they never think about the struggles of marriage.

But there’s no short ways to a successful marriage, you really need to work to make your relationship what you want it to be.

Don’t be afraid to face the struggles of marriage, most of them are not to destroy your relationship, but to strengthen it, and short cut is an insured road to future troubles.


Struggling together as couple will help you build muscles and skills to face the future struggles.


Your goal shouldn’t be to have a struggle free marriage, but to discover how to allow the struggles give you a thick skin for other challenges and not to pole you apart.


Marriage Myth 

Happy couples don’t argue :- You will agree with me that everyone of us enters into marriage having different dreams, expectations, needs experiences as well as fears from our past relationships or families. Because of all these, lots of misconceptions is bound to occur.


The fact is that “lack of fights or arguing shows lack of emotional intimacy and truthfulness in marriage says” O’Neal.

When couples don’t fight, they are susceptible to different kinds of mistakes and emotional “compromises”: Beginning from how they communicate to how they extend time with the extended families” says she (O’ Neal).


In fact, said O’Neal, “a lack of arguing indicates a lack of truthfulness and emotional intimacy.” When couples don’t argue, they make all kinds of emotional compromises — everything from how they communicate to how they approach time with their extended families, she said.


All these kill trusts brings argument and contempt amount couples.


Happy couple do argue also the difference is they don’t explode like others or use argument as a weapon of power in the relationship, rather, they find ways to easily forgive, settle the differences and move on.