If you are conscious of having a happy marriage, then you must try to understand what makes your wife happy or sad.
It is always the commitments of both couples that help so much in building a happy family.
However, I believe that as a man, knowing the things you need to know about how you can make your wife happy will make achieving your goal of a happy family very easy for you.
Why Is your wife’s happiness important?
1) Understand Their Emotions
Women are always too emotional and they are very strong at that. They are too easy to excite and they are too easy to be hurt.
You may go on and call her whatsoever name you choose to, like beautiful, sexy or gorgeous, that is good! But, if she didn’t feel like it, it will not move her a bit.
Your utmost task as her husband is to make her feel all of those things and even more. Her most expectation is to love, respect adore and trust her. Most times when a woman is stressed up outside, they expected that you will help her to calm the situation.
And they feel so disappointed when you let them down too. In other words, keep your mind on your wife’s feelings, so you can tell when they are hurt or happy.
Know when she needs you around and she doesn’t. There are times when the only thing she needs from you is a shoulder to cry, all you need at that moment is to offer your shoulder and not to stop her from crying.
Emotional awareness is the only thing that will guarantee you a successful relationship and also make you the best husband.
2) See Yourself In Her Shoes
Most husbands do not understand how their wife feels and they go ahead with the demand of the things the wife could do; like cooking and having sex, without even showing concern about their wives emotions.
Your wife is also a human being and she gets tired too. Don’t expect her to come back from the office, school runs, market, and start washing the dishes or cook.
Put yourself in her shoes. If you feel tired because you came from work and need to rest for some time, then a lot her to rest too.
Every woman expects her husband to pay attention to whatever they want to say at least to understand her and also at least to help where you could.