Did you see why you shouldn’t even try to change your partner?. It is not worth doing at all.
7) Don’t Assume:
Many marriages have failed because one or both of the couples assumed many things about their partners. The assumption is when you believe and react to a thought that is not true.
Those times when you feel your partner is coming back from office/ work late because they are having external affairs.
Even the assumption that your partner should know what you need in your relationship is the worst because it will keep you stressful all through the marriage.
Marriages succeed more when there is better communication than assumption. Therefore assume less and be sure before you take your action.
8) Think To Be Sincere:
Sincerity pays more than anything else in marriage and having the mindset to be sincere could be the best decision you can make.
Sincerity means you are open to your spouse: no secrete and no plans to keep any skeletons in your cupboard.
Keeping secrets hurts any marriage, especially when it is found out. It starts by destroying the available trust and then put fear and suspicion in your heart.
Thereafter, the foundation of your marriage will be completely broken. The best solution to that is to be plain and open-minded.
Take a look at some ways to be sincere in your marriage:
Learn How To Accommodate Each Other:
It’s not easy to live with someone from a different character and background. There will be flaws, if you keep track of those flaws, you’ll never last together.
Make plans to tolerate each other, and forgive, knowing having in mind that nobody is perfect.
Being grateful for everything is what sincerity signifies. It won’t cost you much to say “thank you” to your spouse when he/she does those little things.
It will give him the courage to do more for you.
Make Only Promises You Can Keep:
Making promises to your spouse is one thing and fulfilling them is another thing too. Sometimes we think it doesn’t matter much when we disappoint our spouse.
Believe me when I told you that you are depleting trust in your relationship when you fail on your promises.
Therefore promise what you can fulfill only or don’t promise at a
9) Refuse Separation:
It is important to be conscious of what you think concerning your marriage. I always advise my readers to stop meditating on anything they don’t want in their relationship.
Remember that “as a man thinks in his heart, that’s the way he is.” Then stop thinking that you will leave your marriage when things didn’t work well.
Just keep meditating on how to make things start working again, and you will see it happen.
“Your thoughts are powerful.” Your mind will always create the realities of those things that are created in your thoughts.
It is therefore important to very whatever comes before you think it.
Proverbs 4 verse 24 says that you should “guide your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life.”
Think the right thoughts and say the right this about a relationship so you get the right things too.
If you are not sure what to think about, then read this article carefully to learn the most important thoughts to change your marriage.
Which of these steps would you try first? Have you tried something that has worked perfectly for you before?
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