Positive thoughts and words pay better than negative ones.
Read these affirmative words instead every time you feel like speaking the opposite words.
Never threaten your spouse with divorce if you don’t wish for it. Pray more often and continue reading your words of affirmation.
3. Don’t Stop Complimenting Each Other.
Always find time to complement each other. Hug each other often and say how beautiful or handsome your spouse is each day. Be sincere when you are giving compliments.
The truth remains that making your spouse feel appreciated is the bedrock of every relationship and giving good compliments is one of the easiest ways to do that.
According to Nancy Ruth Dean, “a relationship expert,” “Complements not only make one feel good, but it makes one feel acknowledged.”
So don’t wait to compliment your spouse, and don’t just compliment him/her about the look, but for other things.
4. Share Responsibilities In The House-
We are no more in the world where the men works and the women stay in the house. Every bodies hand is on deck now to help makes thing easier in the family.
Since everybody goes out and comes back almost at the same time, why would the domestic works be left for only one person to do? Do help to relieve the burden from your spouse. You can do the laundry while your partner cook or order-wise, but just don’t leave the work for your partner. You can as well do it together; that will bond you together.
5. Love When It Is Too Hard For You To Love-
Whenever I hear that couples files for divorce, I began to think about where those first feelings of love, joy, and peace that were present in the marriage have gone to.
When people came together in marriage, they have feelings for each other, though the feeling usually becomes cold as the year goes by, you could still remember those moments of blissful feelings and say “ I am committed to this marriage, and I can’t let it die”.
Just try to love one more time, and restore your marriage to a happy one.
6) Never Try To Change Your Partner.
If you are trying to change your partner, you are also causing another big problem in your relationship. Remember the quote that says that “you can’t teach new tricks to an old dog.” It isn’t possible.