Often times when it looks as if the once know happy marriage is becoming unhappy or dim, women begins to blame their husband for pulling back and distance form them. Though it may not be that the love has died, it may be a momentary emotional withdrawal but the blame is not supposed to be for the men only, women are supposed to share on the blame.
Every happy and successful marriage is built on the commitment of couples. Of course if the happiness depends on the commitment of husband and wife, then the blame will also be share among the two also. But there is a unique role that women are supposed to play to make the plan work.
I was opportune to discuss with some couple that were having challenges in their marriages; most of the facts I gathered showed that there are certain attitude the women exhibits that is capable of making a man to start withdrawing from her. This is why a woman should know the roles she will play to bring her husband back and close again.
All I listed bellow are the things a good wife will do inculcate to bring the joy again.
See your husband as a friend: – The reason why some marriages fail is when a wife starts seeing the spouse as a husband instead of a friend. Seeing your spouse as a friend, will make you know him better, know his like’s and dislikes because you will always love to stay close to him, and one of the recipes of a good marriage is emotional intimacy. When you see him as a husband, what you will have in mind is that he is different from you and there may be a gap between the two of you.
Don’t try to change him:- Never think of changing your husband, it may not work for you. Change will only come if you could only get down on your kneels and pray. However, if you think you can do it on your own, them you will expect to have serious withdrawal from him.
Tell him about your needs and want effectively:- Understand the best way to tell your husband about what you want. Do not always assume he knew about it. Do not chose quarrel as a way of getting what you want from him.
Take care of yourself:- Most women stops taking care of themselves once they are married. Every man wants his wife to look good and detest it when their wives are not looking after themselves. Try and be yourself.
Never discuss your marriage outside: – Learn never to discuss your marriage or your husband or even the challenges in your marriage with any body outside. It is better everything is settled in the house by you and your husband. Sharing your marriage problem outside could mar your marriage. Admit it when you are wrong and also be the first to say “I am sorry”.
If these things be in place, then you are on your way to a strong happy and lasting marriage. Congratulations!
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