How to have a strong and lasting marriage

How To Have A Strong And Lasting Marriage

How do you feel when you see other couples having a strong and lasting marriage but not you? Don’t worry you are not alone. So many people had or are still not figuring out why their relationship is not working. The fact is that, so many marriages are on the verge of breaking up, even as at the time of writing this article.


Is this really the wish of the couple? Do they really want to break up after coming together in marriage?


Of course not:=}}


It is always every couple’s desire to have a sweet family, but along the line, things start changing. The love they all once knew starts getting sour and eventually breaking up becomes the final result.

If your marriage is in this state, there is good news for you.


You can actually make your marriage strong again today, by following these simple steps that I want to share with you now.


It may not be a quick fix, but a gradual process.
One important thing to know about having  a happy marriage is that it is not a man only or woman only affair,


Both of you must be involved and committed to making it happen.
So what exactly is it that makes a marriage strong​ you may ask? It is no rocket science, but just love, understanding, and learning.


How To Have A Strong And Lasting Marriage.


Have a positive mind about your marriage

Always have a positive mind about your marriage. From the very beginning of your marriage, make up your mind how committed you want to be in your marriage.


This will make you to always be in the repairing end instead of destroying end. You already knew that you want the relationship to be a strong and long-lasting marriage, so whatever your spouse does, you simply call it a mistake and immediately look for a way to fix it, because you know you are committed to this marriage. Just keep your mind in your main goal which is to have a happy and strong marriage.



Increase in emotional intimacy

Emotional intimacy is imperative in making your marriage successful. It is simply a sense of closeness with your spouse.


When there is emotional intimacy in marriage, there is closeness, there is more cuddling, more kissing, more communication between you and your spouse. The couple is found sharing more moments alone, maybe discussing their love for each other.


If there is no time for both you and your spouse to talk, then try and create that time, it will help to bring back the good times.



See your spouse as your friend

It is better when you see your spouse as your friend instead of a husband or a wife. This will give you the ability to share more with him or her. Seeing yourselves as husband and wife make it look as if one person is above the other.



Communication is very vital –

Communication between you and your spouse is very important. This simply means the ability to share feelings together.


Always have time you discuss with your spouse about how to move your marriage forward. Looking at the things you have done so far, think about the mistakes you have made so far and plan how to correct it and move forward.


Increase your emotional bank account-

I decided to add this because it is almost the worst enemy to having a happy and strong marriage.


Most at times, the things that bring discord in marriage are those little promises we made to our spouse that we did not fulfill or maybe we forgot to execute them. In my own marriage, I realized that I made promises that I did not fulfill, so when I made a new promise, my wife will not believe me.


Until I learn how to fulfill my promises, my wife refused to trust in me.


Learn how to forgive

Another way to have a happy and strong marriage is to learn how to forgive your spouse when he or she offends you.


Many people find it hard to say you did something bad to me but I have forgiven you. Since marriage is the coming together of different people from different backgrounds there is bound to be squabbles, but the ability to forgive and forget will make you keep moving as one.



I am sure these points will help you so much to get your marriage back and happy again.