Before two people come together as husband and wife, their main goal is to have a happy and successful marriage. However thing started changing when the marriage began to mature. To the couple, they just noticed that things are not rosy the way they use to be.
The joyful and happiness that they feel when they are together, the day out they used to share together starts dwindling. Now they want to be on their own.
What is the reason, why would couple start experiencing what they have never thought about before they come together in marriage?
There are thing that is lacking. I want to share some secret tips to make your marriage sweet and juicy again.
1. Never expect perfection in marriage:
Marriage happened when two people of different back ground, different parent, some times different ethnic groups come together. Because of these, there is no use to believe that everything will be perfect all the time.
If you have this in mind before going into it, you would have bullet proofed yourself to those challenges that will come in future.
Also always understand that your spouse is a human being who passes through stress and challenges all the day and you know what stress could cause.
Therefore expect some imperfections and make allowances for those human conditions.
2. Think about how to make your spouses life better every day-
Do nice things for your spouse. Think nice thoughts and most of the times, pray for your spouse.
3. Complement each other all the time-
Always fine time to complement each other. Hug each other often and say how beautiful or handsome your spouse each. Always be sincere when you are giving the complements.
4. Share responsibilities in the house-
We are no more in the world where the man works, and the woman stays in the house. Every bodies hand is on deck now to help makes thing easier in the family.
Since every body goes out and come back almost at the same time, why would the domestic works is left to only one person to do? Do help to relief the burden from your couple.
5. Love when it is too hard for you to love-
Whenever I hear that couple are filing for divorce, I began to thing about where those first feelings of love, joy, and peace that was once present in the marriage have gone to.
Obviously, when two people come together in marriage, they have feelings for each other, though the feeling usually become cold as the year goes by, you could still remember those moments of blissful feelings and say “ I am committed to this marriage , and I can’t let it die”.
Just try to love one more time, and restore your marriage back as a happy one.