Couples pray for the gift of children in their marriage. However, at times it looks as if the arrival of children brings about a reduction in the intimacy between them.
Yes, of course, now more attention is given to the children, that couples have fewer times to share together. A friend of mine went the extent of taking pictures with the children forgetting their mother.
Listen to what the wife told me when I visited them. She s, aid “ any time I look at those pictures, I feel like I am not welcomed here”. Would you rather want your spouse to have this thought?
Now listen to what you will do to save yourself the stress. Always show your spouse that he/she is important as well as the children.
3) When your Sex life becomes dull.
Sex is an indispensable factor in every marriage. However, there are times when it looks as if the sex life of your marriage has become dull.
Most of the common reasons for this are the disparity in the sexual responsiveness or libido of the individual partner. When this happens, the next thing to do is to try all you can to restore sex in your marriage.
4) When there is no more emotional intimacy.
There are times in the marriage when everything seems to become cold between the couples. This usually happens after so many years of marriage.
There is no more emotional relationship between couples, no more time for cuddling, no more time for affectionate touching, no more laughing or talking together. At these moments, you may want to divorce; wait! You can get it back again.
5) Lack Of Equality:
This has been proven to be among one of the greatest marriage destroyers and you must avoid it.
What does lack of equality mean? When your spouse sees him/herself doing more in your marriage than you do. This has destabilized so many marriage, and it is still causing harms.