We are always too careful and will go to any length to protect our costly jewelry from theft insure our other properties for safety, but sometimes it never occurs to us that we should do something to protect our marriage.
Right from the beginning of our marriage we never thought there’s any need whatsoever to protect our marriage. We believed there’s no need to build an emotional fence of protection around our marriage.
That’s the reason you see marriages crashing in its earlier stage and ask the couples and they will tell you that everything was going pretty well until they found out thing was not normal again.
That’s right: )
Every day, our marriages pass through huddles, and while some couples overcome the challenges, others get stocked in it.
The former failed because there were no measures in place about protecting their marriage: but the later stood their ground because they have built an edge around them.
In this post, I want to show you some steps you should take to protect your marriage from the unforeseen
Let’s get down to business now.
How to protect your marriage
1 creates good boundaries:
It’s good to have healthy boundaries in your marriage as well as honor the boundaries.
Boundaries simply show where your power begins, where it ends and where your spouse begins and ends too.
But, have in mind that a boundary doesn’t give you the power to control the other but just to be responsible. So that you and your spouse will have a balance in your relationship and also know how to love each other better.
2 Forget a closed relationship with the opposite sex: –
It is proper to have friends and neighbors but mind how you relate with then. A very close and intimate relationship with the opposite sex may lead to infidelity and cheating is the number one marriage destroyer.
3 Build a spiritual hedge around your marriage: –
Everything we want and need is in the name of Jesus.
If you need money, only God can give that. And if you need success in your marriage, all you need is God.
The weapon you should hold firm in prayer. God said “ask anything you want and it shall be given.