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How to update your marriage virus scanner

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Only an open and sincere communication can increase trust in a relationship and every relationship needs large chunks of trust to be successful.

communication is the bedrock of every marriage and when it’s tampered with, I affect the marriage.
The best solution is to say the truth always and see how your family will work.

(4) Trust:-

Every marriage depends on trust to survive. That simply means it is very impossible to have a close intimacy in your relationship if you or your partner lack trust.
Trust creates good bonds and security in a relationship as everyone feels relaxed and secure too.

However, when trust is lacking in a relationship, every other part of the relationship suffers.
This is true because everyone wants to treat someone the same way they are treated (Tit for Tat).

That’s why we feel hurt when our partner betrays our trust, some times we want to get even.
We think, if you are not sincere with me then why should I be sincere with you.

Did you see how trust affects marriage/relationship?

Lack of trust is one virus that destroys a marriage. So do not do anything that can sniff out trust out of your marriage if you don’t want your marriage to fail.

5) Resentment:-

This is another tricky virus that eats of a marriage in a little time. It usually starts small like anger and boredom and gradually erodes the marriage.

Claire Hatch, LCSW, says “resentment is a sneaky emotion that takes more forms than you realize. On the surface, it may cause you to feel bored, or to find flaws with your partner — picking on them for small things such as being somewhat messy or failing to return your text in a timely fashion”.

Gary Brown a well-known family and marriage therapist from Los Angeles said that resentment gradually eats up a relationship to the point that your partner will feel the worse phase of resentment. At that point things have gone out of hand and will be hard to reverse, you don’t want that to happen to your marriage, do you?

Final Notes:-

it’s about How To Update Your Marriage Virus Scanner to scan your marriage daily for viruses that are capable of destroying it and eliminate them before they strike.
Remember, it is your sole duty to save your marriage for destruction.

I am still your friend Ikenna Uchegbu (murphyaik).
See you at the top.

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