If your friends know how to come home late drunk, you are close to learning it and behaving the same.
How to scan your marriage for bad friends The best way to do this is to stay away from such friends.
Be with those you are learning good things from. They will not only inspire you, but you will also learn good values from him or her.
2) Spend less time with the opposite sex:-
I know it well you are just friends, I also know that you are not lusting after him/her.
You both work at the same office, and there is absolutely no harm in taking him/her to have coffee together. Here’s what I want to let you know: a too-close relationship with the opposite sex can create sexual feelings for you as time goes on and can eventually create a rift in your marriage and I know you don’t want that.
It usually starts as a play, but as time goes on you find out that you both are sharing very personal things with each other and sometimes you become disappointed when you get to the office and he/ or she is not there and somehow start desiring to be alone together.
I know you will tell me you are not feeling like what I am talking about, but ask yourself if he/she is feeling the same.
Now to be on the safe side, keep a good distance from them and create a good professional barest between you and any opposite sex.
It’s very easy to tell lies, but it’s not that easy to come out from the negative effects of lies.
We see it as a small, but we graduate from that little lie to a bigger lie and when it becomes bigger, we tell another lie to cover it up.
The worse is when you hide about your intimate relationship with someone outside, but that’s a huge sin against marriage.