One of the things that can make him lose interest in you is when you won’t let him be alone for a while. It’s important to spend time together, and it’s interesting also to have alone times too.
If you have been spending time always with him, try giving him a chance to do whatever he wants and don’t see it as a treat to your relationship.
It will make him love you better.
4) Forgive Him Always:
Being able to let go of your boyfriend’s hurts and wrongs is a critical recipe to make your boyfriend happy.
Forgiving your boyfriend’s wrongs always makes both of you emotionally and physically healthy.
Here’s why it is important to forgive.
Lack of forgiveness wears you down physically and mentally and makes resentments gain more ground to destroy your relationship.
John Hopkins said that ” forgiveness reduces heart attack and also lowers cholesterol levels.”
Don’t be like most girls who love to persuade their boyfriends with guilts to get something done for them. If you want him happy, try to forgive him every time and don’t remind him of his wrongs in the future.
5) Honor Him Always:
Your boyfriend doesn’t need to be loved, he needs to be respected and honored. The only love men understand is respect and honor.
Those are the fastest ways a man’s heart and it works faster than love.
Make him understand that he is your pride and that you support him always.
The best ways to show your love to him is to
- – Respect his daily decisions.
- – Be interested in all that interests him.
- – Compliment and talk about his strengths and characteristics.
When you make these available to your boyfriend, he will feel highly elated and he will shower you with the love he was commanded by God to give to you.
6) Be Happy Too:
Although this sound somehow but being happy is also a great way to also make your boyfriend happy.
“Happiness is contagious,” and really, when you are happy, everyone close to you automatically becomes happy too.
The result of a research conducted lately at the University of California shows that “happiness spreads through social networks, sort of like a virus, meaning that your happiness could influence the happiness of someone you’ve never even met.” ( source)
That simply means that you can influence your boyfriend’s happiness by being happy too.
In order words, concentrate on making yourself happy first, and watch it transferred to your partner too.
7) Put Off Your Gadgets While With Him:
In as much as technology has added color to our lives, it has also destroyed so many relationships and it has saved so many also.
Your boyfriend will feel neglected and dishonored when you are pressing your gadgets while he is talking with you.
Yes, your phone, sound systems, and other gadgets can wait for a moment. If it is an emergency, he will understand that if not, let it wait. And if you must take the call, let him know how important the call is.
From the data published on the Psychology of popular media cultures in 2016, may college adults reported that their marriages were negatively impacted when their partners use their mobile phones more. ( Source).
To protect your relationship from destruction, drop your gadgets, and give 100% attention to your man.