Another good step to having peace in marriage is to learn to be kind to yourselves and respect yourself too. Being judgemental and critical will only make your partner defensive and resentful.
Therefore, choose to make things better In your marriage instead. If you love to shout at your partner or attack his character whenever you are angry, you have to stop it and embrace peace. Shouting at your partner will only cause resentment and withdrawals so avoid it completely.
7) Learn To Appreciate-
How often do you appreciate your spouse? Well, that’s left for you to answer. But if you want to have peace in your marriage, you must learn to appreciate those big and small accomplishments
Most people in long relationships are always victims of this: they easily take themselves for granted. Meanwhile, the experts said that couples should learn how to verbally express their appreciation to their spouses on a daily bases.
Just find ways to show your appreciation. For example, be fast to tell them how you love to wake up beside him/her every morning and show them how you have missed them after a busy day. Tell them what you love about them and vice versa.
Look, everybody wants to be appreciated, even you. Appreciation gives us the power to do more. There is no motivation like saying “well done” to your partner. It goes a long way to make your relationship successful.
8) Don’t Sleep With Your Problems Or Sweep them Under The Rug-
There will always be challenges in your marriage; they are inevitable. The best solution is to resolve it immediately; don’t go to bed with it, or sweep it under the rug. When your unsolved problems become too many, they will overwhelm you and your relationship.
Never run away from your problems, sweep them under the rug, or overlook them. Face them squarely immediately so they Stop growing bigger.
9) Look For Help When Necessary-
Some problems may be too hurt for you to handle no matter how you tried. Yes, it is good to attempt to solve them with your partner; if you succeed in solving them, congratulations! If not, look for help
There are people trained to help you deal with your marital problems. Marriage counselors are everywhere. Locate one of them to help you. If you are not sure how to find one, I have an article you can read to learn all about how to locate a counselor near you. Read it here.
Conclusion:
Pray to God concerning any step you want to take concerning getting marriage, so he can direct you.
You can not be successful in anything without Him. That’s why Proverbs 3 verse 5 reads ” Trust in the Lord with all your hearts and lean not on your understanding: in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your part.
These are the simplest nuggets for a happy relationship.
Thanks for reading.
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