How to gradually improve your marriage

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Improve your marriage

 

One thing is always sure in a marriage and that is the need to improve your marriage all the time. As the day goes by, most of the blissful times and other things couples enjoy in marriage starts fading away gradually, issues start coming out and quarrel becomes the order of the day.

Some marriage experts say that these things are good and help to make a marriage grow stronger, but I personally disagree with that because those are the things that can destroy even the sweetest and the happiest marriage on earth if not properly taken care of.

It is very important for every couple to do everything they should to keep their marriage happy by improving on it. There is virtual space in every relationship for improvement and I will advise you today to look very well and discover those places in your marriage that need improvement and start working on it today.

Here Are the Things You Can Do To Improve Your Marriage.

 

1) Have a one and one talk with your spouse.

Everything in life starts with a decision, and improving your marriage is one of those things that need the decision of both you and your spouse, if you want it to work out.

There can be no way for marriage improvement if you and your spouse are not in agreement to do so. It starts from the very moment you call your spouse and ask if he or she is ready to work with you to mend your marriage by improving on it.

If the answer is yes, then half of the work is done.

 

2)’Talk about those places that need to be improved upon,

write them down and start working on it one after the other. See Only the Positive Side of Your Spouse.

During courtship, couples seem to hide so many aspects of their lives, but as the day goes by in marriage, things start coming out, the character starts changing.

You may at that time be forced to tell yourself that this is not the same person you married in the first place. You are not alone. It is common in every marriage. This is what I want you to do; choose to see only the good side of your spouse.

 

3) Also, remember that it is not your work to change your spouse

 

so never try to do so. Make a list of those qualities you like in him or her and always remind yourself of that wonderful person you married. Improve On The Quality Of Time You Spend With Your Spouse. Another better way you can improve on your marriage is to increase the quality of time you stay with your spouse.

 

I did not say an increase in the time you stay with your spouse or but to increase the quality of time. Staying 24 hours with your spouse will only deny him/her of personal space and a chance to miss you;

I am not saying you should take a week or month-long vacation. However, make your spouse feel your absence for a little while. Remember you are trying to improve on your marriage.

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AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers have been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed by coming to this site.

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AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers have been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed by coming to this site.

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