Here is what to do
2) Be Confident Of Yourself:–
Helen Rowland said in his quote that ” The woman who appeals to a man’s vanity may stimulate him, the woman who appeals to his heart may attract him, but it is the woman who appeals to his imagination that gets him”.
Confidence is one of the qualities men don’t joke with when they find it in women.
A confident woman never seeks approval to do anything she wants.
They love to be themselves and know what they worth and are also confident that they can get whatever they want in life.
If these qualities I mentioned are not in you, then you have to work on your low esteem to increase it.
3) Be Original:-
Quote “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality, and duplicate it”.
Be who you are always and do not pretend to be who you are not created to be.
If you are the type of girl that believes you have to look like Princess Diana, or you prefer dressing in a particular way just to draw men’s attention to yourself, then you are not doing yourself any good.
Men like it when you are proud of you are, I don’t mean being arrogant, but you are proud of your look.
Learn to express and respect yourself, because no man will respect you if you don’t have respect for yourself.
4) Always Be A Mystery:-
It‘s always tempting to divulge everything about you to that man, after all, he is your would-be husband. But wait! Do you know that men respect you more when they take the time to understand you and what you are made of?
And so to create a spark into that man’s curiosity about who you are, don’t tell everything about you, allow him to do the findings all by himself.
5) Be available and easy to be with:-
It doesn’t matter how beautiful you are, if you don’t make yourself available and easy to be with, men will run away from you.
All men want an easy and pleasant life and so sometimes playing hard to get works, but frankly speaking men don’t like a drama queen.
6) Be mature Emotionally:-
Quote ” The Criteria of Emotional Maturity: The ability to deal constructively with reality The capacity to adapt to change A relative freedom from symptoms that are produced by tensions and anxieties.
The capacity to find more satisfaction in giving than receiving The capacity to relate to other people consistently with mutual satisfaction and helpfulness The capacity to sublimate, to direct one’s instinctive hostile energy into creative and constructive outlets The capacity to love”.
William C. Menninger.
If you are the type of woman that likes to have her way in everything, you shout almost at every and you don’t mind crying until you are not mature emotionally.
Truly you are matured in age, but to be matured emotionally comes with experience.
Emotional maturity implies that you can manage and control the intensity of your emotions.
You know yourself so well that even when your man says or does things that triggers despair in you, then you are still calm, however, that doesn’t mean you’ll swallow everything, both the ones you like and don’t like you like, but you always look for the better ways to settle everything.
7) Manage your emotions
If you understand the process of managing your emotions well, every man that comes your way will see you as an amazing girl to be with.
8) Set a standard and have requirements:–
If you are in the marriage market and you don’t know what you want, then you are setting yourself as a playground for men.