Here is some smart honeymoon sex guide for newlywed couples as requested by the readers of my blog.
This post is written, as an answer to the amazing questions that I receive daily in my email from my newlywed readers who want to know how they could have a great sex experience with their new love during the honeymoon.
If you are one of those that asked the question, you are not alone.
A lot of people ask that question too about sex. The truth is that sex can be very tricky sometimes because everyone has a preference, liking, and desire when it comes to getting satisfied during sex.
The women want it just the same way men do and if you are not sure how to go about it, one person gets more of it than the other.
Now it’s time to enjoy the first sex life with a brand new person that you are obviously so much love with.
It’s a brand new experience for you and you are not sure how to go about it.
Don’t worry -:))
In this post, you will learn how to have a wonderful sex experience during your honeymoon.
Honeymoon Sex Guide For newlywed couples:
1) Let your spouse know what you want:–
You should tell your partner about your expectations for sex during your honeymoon.
You cannot afford to keep it inside of you or your sex life will gradually deteriorate until it becomes so bad.
A famous Sex expert Dr. Ruth after research says that “Communication is the key to bedroom bliss throughout your marriage”
That simply means
You have to let your partner know your likes and dislikes when it comes to sex, so two of you can work to always make it better.
I really understand it can’t be an easy task for you, especially when you haven’t known each other better.
But, if only you can summon the courage to do so, then you have only insured your sex life forever.
2) discover your sexuality: –
Sometimes things don’t become the same sexually after years of marriage.
The author of the “Sex smart the bestselling sex book on Amazon Aline Zaldbrod Ph.D. said, ” getting married takes away the thrill of feeling desperately sought after, and it is not uncommon for women to find out that their desire goes down at this point”.
To keep your sex drive high and active all the time, you’ve got to discover your sexuality, know exactly how, when and places you want your partner touch to give you the maximum satisfaction you need and communicate it to your partner.
The fact still remains that
Getting satisfying sex life starts and ends with understanding and acknowledgment of our personal sexual needs.
It is obviously in our hands and not our spouse’s responsibility.
3) Learn to give and take pleasure during sex:–
You have heard and read so many books on sex and you are at the crossroads now about how good to make sex satisfying and enjoyable too.
You have also nurtured in your mind about who will be on the receiving or giving side during sex.
The answer to this is that you take as much pleasure as you can and also give as much pleasure as you can, whichever way you choose, but just remove selfishness as you play the game.
The truth is that when you give pleasure, you are giving your partner the opportunity to receive and vice versa.
Sometimes also our partner, are satisfied and received so much pleasure when you receive all they are able to give and so don’t be afraid to do any of these.
4) Keep good sexual hygiene: –
keep your health under check after the wedding.
Some couples go on their honeymoon with infections, cyst, and urinary tract infections.
So check yourself properly and take care of yourself before the honey.
5) Your genitals are not all you have: –
Sex is made to be enjoyed with our genitals, but your whole body can play a very important part too.
Pay more attention to using your finger and tongue simultaneously during sex.
Most women enjoy it more when you stimulate their clitoris and men feel good when you suck and stroke their penis.
Just make use of any part of your body to make sex enjoyable for you doing the honeymoon.
No dull moment.
6) You May Not Bleed Even Though You Are A Virgin.
You have had your first-time sex with your partner, and as a virgin, you expected to see blood but that didn’t haven.
Don’t be afraid, it happens that way sometime, but that doesn’t change the fact that you are a virgin.
7) Orgasm May Or May Not Happen.
This is your first night after the wedding so expect anything to happen. Have high expectations, plan how to make the first exuberant.
However, every one of your expectations may not happen the way you expect them. For example, if you expect to have orgasm during your sex and it didn’t happen, then forget it and plan it for another night.
8) You May Feel Some Pains During Sex.
Don’t be surprised also when you feel some pains during your honeymoon sex. It is a common thing among women.
According to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologist, about 75% of women do have pains during sex.
So many women quite dating or avoid intimate relationships because of pains.
My advice to you is to see that as normal, meanwhile, you can choose to see your Gynecologist after your honeymoon.
9 Take Lubricant With You.
If you haven’t had sex before, then you should expect to have a painful sex experience, especially during penetration
If you have your lubricant handy, it will aid penetration thereby giving you a better experience.
Dear, I am glad to write these tips to guide you through ways you can enjoy sex during your honeymoon. The rest is left for you. Take action now and you will be amazed at what result you’ll get.