When it comes to marriage, Nigeria men usually classify women into two major types.
– The wife material type: – These are the type’s girl that exhibits some characters or has some attributes that will make any man desire to have her as a wife.
They may not look beautiful, or have good body structure, but you can’t be with them once and you’ll never like what you see.
– The non wife material type: – They may be beautiful, have everything that makes a woman lovely, but, you must be pissed off at just a little association with her.
In marriage no one wants to make mistakes, no one likes to get married today and be separated soonest.
Even the divorced will tell you they’ve never planned to separate.
So there’s really a need to be careful when making your choice of a woman to live the rest of your live with.
In this post, I will show you some characteristics of the good wife material as shared to me by some pals, to guide you as you take your steps into marriage.
11 Characteristics of a wife material woman in Nigeria.
1) She is more beautiful on the inside: – Like I said in the introduction of this post, these types of women may not look beautiful physically, but they are very beautiful inside.
Of course we cannot dispute the fact that physical appearance matters in relationship, however, marriage is more than losing at the facial appearance when making your choice.
Remember beauty is completely when it comes from the inside also.
The marriageable women are known for their good heart, good personality.
They are not rude; they are decent and are ready to make you feel happy always.
They are also willing to stay with you might and day, just to be sure you are comforted when you are in pain or challenges.
Isn’t that the type of woman you want to marry?
2) She is always fun to be with: – These types of women are always fun to be with.
They are always full of wisdom and they know how to make all your stay with them remarkable.
She is ready to laugh loud with you in public, cry with you and shout for joy when you crack jokes.
They are not good in discussing other people, and so you know that every of your stay with he will be full of good conversations that will empower your relationship.
All they care about are those things that makes the moment good and full of enjoyments.
3) She is an excellent cook: – One interesting way to a man’s heart is through your cooking.
Every man wants a woman that knows how to cook, so they can be rest assured that when their friends visit their house.
The wife material not only knows the best ingredients for every meal, or knows how to prepare only the local food; they also know how to prepare the most complicated dishes.
4) She is matured: – Am not talking about age here, but am taking about a lady who is matured in mind, someone who knows how to go through life issues without giving up, and someone who can contain good and bad news with ease.
When she feels disappointed, she could stand positively and instead of crying, because she knew that all things are working for her good.
There’s absolutely no need to marry a child as a wife, who will start crying when challenges comes.
You need someone who always wants to make you happy and at the same time stand firm to herself.
6) Always forgiving: – Everyone makes mistakes, no one is above it. Sometimes, we make mistakes that are even bigger than we imagine. It is only a good wife that can call it a mistake and forgive immediately.
If you marry a stubborn woman, she will never forgive your mistakes and will continue to remind you of the mistakes you made 9 years ago.
6) She is submissive: – One of the greatest commands God gave every woman is to be submissive to their husbands.
However, not all women do that, but the good wives do it.
They don’t just learn to be, but it’s their lifestyle.
She is ready to follow every order you give, every rule, as well as all the laid down regulations without complain.
In spite of all these, she gain more respects from her man.
7) She knows how to use money:- If you give her any amount of money, she doesn’t complain, because she knows how to judiciously use that money to get the best.
She is not good at buying costly things, like make ups, Brazilian hairs or how to show off.
All the times, she is thinking about what she could do to make money in other to support husband or the boyfriend.
8) She is faithful: – She is faithful to the last. You can confidently leave her at home and travel for five years or more and she will not bother to cheat on you.
You can comfortably trust that she will stay faithful because she wants to be known as a perfect woman.
9) She cares about the ones you care about: – She is ready to love and care for the same people that is close to you.
Once she knows that something or someone is important to you, she takes care of it just as if it’s her own: not because of herself, but because it matters to you.
Because of the love and respect she has for you, everything that matters to you becomes her utmost joy too. So if your wife to be is happy with your family and siblings and relatives, then she a good wife material.
10) She is ready to support you: – Any woman that will sacrifice her own comfort so you have time to pursue your goals is very good for marriage, and she loves you so much.
And so, any woman who doesn’t recognize your goals talk less of encouraging you to try achieving whatever you want in life is not worthy to be your wife.
However, the types of women am talking about in this post, will support you to the last, even when you tell her you want climb Mount Kilimanjaro in 5 seconds.
11) She is God fearing: – Marriageable women are the types that don’t just go to church on Sunday, but they are committed and have good roles to play in the church too.
They are either in choir gospel band, and are also faithful in her tithe and offerings.
They know the importance of Making God first in everything they do, and therefore do not want anything to separate them from God.
All her actions depend on what God wants for her life and family.
Rounding up:- Nobody is perfect and so don’t wait until your wife to be meet all these points in this article.
It is not and can never be possible to see a girl that’s 100% perfect after all marriage is not for perfect people, but for people who comes together try to be perfect.
The reason for this post then is to guide you to know what make a woman a wife material and how you can spot them from the crowd.
Just don’t forget to invite me to your wedding when the time comes.
Remain blessed and see you at the top.
I am still your friend Ikenna Uchegbu (Murphyaik).
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