Every journey begins with a step. of. Therefore if you are interested in having a successful marriage, then there are steps you’ll need to take to get your desired results, and until this first step to a happy marriage is taking, every other step may not be a good step to having peace in the marriage.
In this article, I want to show you the first step to having peace marriage, and I want it clearly registered in your mind so that in the future time, it will not be hard for you to start experiencing the joy and peace you want in your marriage and you can also teach your children to tread the part also.
If you are ready to know the first step to a happy marriage, then let’s dive in.
First Step To Having Peace In Marriage
The first step you will take today in other to have happiness in your marriage is to believe in your mind that it is possible to have a positive, a good and lasting relationship with your spouse.
Everything starts in the mind. Many couples are always so negative, that they only see their marriage getting worst, and because of that, they have already made up their minds for divorce because they believed that things can never be the same way again, but that is not true because everything is possible to then that believes.
Believe with your heart
It is also important to know that believing alone can not bring the happiness you desire in your marriage but to start putting up the actions that could help to make it happen.
One of the things you must do is to bring out your paper and a pen, and start writing down the entire steps you must take to make this marriage happy.
Think about the things you must do, all the sacrifices you must make on your own part in other to bring joy.
Write them down and paste it where you will always see it.
Give them up if possible
Ask yourself; what are the attitudes I will inculcate in my marriage? What are the things I will let go of?
Remember your main goal is to take the first to have a happy marriage. Always try and say only those things that bring the atmosphere of happiness between you and your family.
Remember that as a man thinks in his heart, so is he.
Marriage is first done in the mind, so start for the first day to think and speak positively about your marriage.
Picture how your marriage will look like, see how you and your whole family are having lunch on the dining.
Again learn to call forth what you want in your marriage. With your tongue, you can “prophesy” about your marriage and what you said will happen.
The success and failure of your marriage are in your hand. If that is really true, then do whatever is needed to have the type of marriage you ever wanted.
There’s power in your tongue, You can use it to chat the course of your life. Declare only all you want, and you will have them.
Pray to God concerning any step you want to take concerning getting marriage, so he can direct you.
You can not be successful in anything without Him. That’s why Proverbs 3 verse 5 reads ” Trust in the Lord with all your hearts and lean not on your own understanding: in all your ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct your part.
These are the simplest nuggets for a happy relationship.
Thanks for reading.
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