If you are a newlywed and you are looking to know how you can celebrate this your Christmas together as couples, then this article is specifically for you and in a little moment from now I will show you how to do just that.
Celebrating your first Christmas together as a couple could be one of the best thing and the best romantic moment every newlyweds will seek to have.
The reason is that everything is new and just as the virgin land is, you. will have the opportunity to create new and exciting rituals together.
Every Christmas, parents, brothers, sisters and in-laws love to have their newlyweds spend much time taking part in their own rituals like special church services, parties and other functions, and that left the couple with even less time to have to themselves.
If your own Christmas is booked by your family as I have described earlier, then this article will reveal some way to enjoy your celebration together.
Here is the ways to go about it .
How to spend your first Christmas as Husband and Wife.
1 Remember what Christmas is all about: – In the mist of the preparation about the celebration, it is impertinent you take some time together and read more about Christmas is all about.
Get your Bible and start searching and studying about the birth of Christ, think about the impact it has in your life .
Start reading from the book of Luke chapter 2, then read Mathew 1and 2. you’ll be more enlightened about Christmas and as you are reading, try to see it in the perspective of husband and wife as you read the story of Joseph and Mary.
Remember the celebration should not be cloud your understanding that the season of Christmas is about the gift God brought to us. Isaiah chapter nine verses 6: For to us a child is born, to us a son is given and the government should be upon His shoulder. His name should be called wonderful, counselor, the mighty God, the prince of peace.
2 Set your budget for Christmas: – It’s obvious you know too well how debt can cause stress after, for that reason you should be sure to make a proper plan on how you’ll spend during the celebration.
Do not spend so much getting gifts on December and be stressed in January when you start getting the bills.
The best way to avoid this by setting a budget and let it be only on the things you can afford.
3 Watch movies –(Christmas movies) with your spouse. You can both go to the cinema together and watch your favorite Christmas movies.
Here are few movies you can watch.
a All I want for Christmas
b Holiday inn
c Ernest saves Christmas.
d I’ll be home for Christmas.
e Chalie Brown Christmas
f The Muppet Christmas carol
g Surviving Christmas.
4 Celebrate with her family once: – Go with her parents house and celebrate Christmas with them. Get some gifts like wine and some other gifts for your in-laws. Try and look good when going,
As you get to your in laws house hug both parents and maintain eye contact with the father as you wish them a wonderful Christmas. Go to church or other functions with them if they asked you to. You are a member of the family .
5 Also celebrate with your family too:- As you celebrate with your family, remember it’s her first time to celebrate Christmas with your family so make her feel at home with your parents and siblings. Let her decide on the gifts you will get for your family and that will give her a sense of belonging.
6 Get a special gift for each other: – Gift giving is one of the joys of Christmas, so get a gift for your partner and wrap it in such a way that it will be impossible to know what’s inside. Then get it along with a necklace or card. As you share the gifts, put a little smile on your face.
7 Start your own Christmas tradition together:– Since this your family is new, it is important you create a brand new tradition that is personal to you and your partner.
It may be about attending some special Christmas events, watch interesting Christmas movies, visiting the orphanage homes or getting personalized tree ornaments. Just understand that it’s a beginning and a time to initiate your unique Christmas tradition together with your spouse.
8 Have your couple’s time intact:- with the joy and sweetness that comes with Christmas celebration, it is you are sure to forget your couples time together
in that respect, you should plan exclusively for it, get your calendar and mark the days for visiting friends and relatives and then have your couples time mapped out also.
Finally:- It is your duty to plan on how to celebrate your first Christmas together as husband and wife.
This article is just a guide; search the internet for more details and plan it with your better half to get maximum
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