Advice For Saving your Marriage in 7 Days.

Marriage advice.

 

 

 

 

 

if your marriage is going through so problems, and you are looking for ways of saving your marriage, and you have read so many book, playing CDs, searched the internet and attended seminars  yet you’ve not found the answer to your questions.

This article is for you.

Question is,

do you actually want things to work again in your relationship?

If you do,
Then here are some interesting ways of saving your marriage.

 

The Best Advice on saving your marriage in Seven days.

 

Dear, obviously, the best marriage advice that works perfectly well, is the advice you gave to yourself concerning your marriage.

It’s obvious you know why things are going the way they are now, and you have read all the advice you could get anywhere, yet things did not change, this is time to stop and advice yourself to put all you’ve read, learnt so far to work .

If you take the decision at this point of reading to be your best, do your best and make some sacrifice that will profit could be the best step into saving your marriage.

 

Why am I saying all these?

Of course you will be surprised why I am saying all these, but I will explain it to you in a little while. First let’s consider the most common marriage problems and their causes.

 

Most Common Marriage problems

 

1) Overstepping of each other’s Boundaries:

One of the big problems we face in our relationships is stepping far into our partners boundaries.

Boundaries is always there to show you where your power starts and where that of your partner begin.

But, after knowing these, you sometimes deliberately step into were you are not supposed in the name of changing your partner. Maybe changing the fashion style, or trying to change their fundamental beliefs.

Attempting to change your partner means encroachment to his or her privacy, and it make the other person feel disrespected, hurt and may be very angry with you.

Probably you are doing all this in others to be in control  of your spouse, but when your partner eventually becomes aware of your intentions, he or she sees it as treat and the mutual understanding between you is jeopardized. It usually results to fights, retaliation, withdrawal and separation.

 

2) Emotional Disconnection:

Emotional Disconnection attracts so many things in our marriage- like cheating, disconnection as well as divorce. Howeve the main causes of motional detachment are –

  • Complacency
  • Abuse
  • Bearing Grude
  • Stress.
  • Denial

When there’s emotional detachment, there’s tenancy that one of the partners need will likely be neglected and if that happens, your partner may start looking outside for fulfilment.

But all these could be avoided. 

We will talk about how later in this post.

 

3) Selfishness:-

Selfishness in marriage simply means that one partner is placing his personal desires and needs ahead of the others. After sometimes the partner start feeling neglected and unloved. And then marriage start deteriorating.

 

4) Anger and Loss of Control:-

Anger and Loss of anger is inevitable in every relationship, but It can effect relationship so negatively especially when the couple’s didn’t address the issues well and on time.

However, anger can be avoided in relationship if one can advice him or herself to change attitude.

 

5 “Values and beliefs”:-

Problems about different believes and values is another issue that has turned some relationships to bitter experiences.

Of course there must be differences and disagreements within couple, however almost all of them can be dealt with immediately before is results to other things.

It only depends on how both of you chose to go about it. However, the best bet is to make up your mind to make things better. 

 

Did you see that? 

When you take a close look at all the six marriage problems I mentioned in this post, you’ll definitely agree with me that it wouldn’t be much of trouble to solve, if couples could just decide to advice themselves to do their best to make the marriage successful.

 

Here’s what I mean Problems

jf overstepping into someone’s boundary would be solved if you mind your own boundaries, your partner wouldn’t have been challenging and fighting you about it and Emotional detachment would be avoided if you have decided to be more romantic and caring to your partner.

 Selfishness would be a thing of the past if you decide today to care more about your partners need rather than yours, and it wouldn’t cost you anything to do so than just changing how you view this life.

At the same time, temperament loss of control can also be dealt with if you desire to. You only have to make up your mind to be slow in your judgement of others.

Finally,

you can change anything you or don’t want in this life, especially if someone else have tried and succeeded and I have written down some advices for saving your marriage in this post.

So take time to go through it, and ask yourself what needs to be changed and what needs to be improved and then get down to work immediately to bring the peace you so desired.

Everything is possible when you advice yourself to personally make your marriage succeed.

 

I sincerely Wish this post will help you solve your problem; if it does, then remember to share

 

 

 

About Aik

AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers has been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed for coming to this site.

Aik

AIK UCHEGBU is a writer and an authority in anything that matters about marriage and how to build it successfully. His followers has been greatly enhanced by his findings. You will not be disappointed for coming to this site.

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