2) Your Spouse Accepted And Asked you For Time To Think About It:-
Well, you have tried to reconcile and everything worked out fine. Your partner has accepted but asked for a little time to think about it; that’s the best time to expect these signs of reconciliation after separation.
From this point, your partner may start relaxing in most of their repelling attitudes and communication may come back also. Although it will not be imminent you will see some changes in the ways he/she talks to you lately.
3) You Have Forgiven Too:-
Reconciliation steps must be taken by you and your spouse before it will be successful. If your spouse is the cause of the separation and he/she felt sorry about the action and asked for forgiveness, you must be ready to forgive and forget.
That is the only way amendments can happen. The causes of the fight may be something that is not easily forgotten, but you saw a genuine repentance from your partner after that.
Be ready to say “I have forgiven you” so things can move on from there.
4) Your Social Media Followings Are Back:-
One of the things you found out at the beginning of the separation is that your partner stopped following or making comments on your social media handles.
That can be heartbreaking, especially when you don’t want the separation in the first place.
When your partner decides to unfollow you on any social media, it simply shows they don’t want you again or want to have anything to do with you again.
It may also mean another way he/she intends to punish you for your mistakes. That may also be his/her way to deal with confusing emotions regarding the separation.
However, recently you found out that they are back and following your social media handles again. That’s one of the big signs of reconciliation after separation.
5) You Or Your Partner Started Being Jealous Again:-
One of the popular relationship writers Clifford N. Lazarus Ph.D. said that jealousy occurs when someone believes that someone else or something is a threat to a valued relationship.
Therefore, if suddenly after separation you ex starts enquiring about you recent relationship, partner and new love life, that isn’t normal.