7 Quick wins to get your spouse talking
However, the first step in settling the argument is to take responsibility for the cause of the fight; and to do that, you have to ponder over what actually happened to know what your contribution was, that is when you will have the upper hand in settling the disputes.
2 Give your spouse some moments to cool off before talking:-
Actually, during the heated moments, anyone can say anything, but once the words or actions have been done, it has to either destroy or save the other person.
After pondering on the reasons why there was a fight, and you found out you have offended your spouse, and now you feel sorry, then going to him/her immediately will be the worst mistake to make.
That will only make him/her flare up once more.
It is true that you are genuinely sorry about your actions, but the other person needs time too to cool off.
Give him/her that time they needed and then plan well to make your first move.
3 Start with saying sorry, and let it come from your heart:-
Saying sorry when you offended your spouse is important, but it is more important when you say it from your heart.
Any time you apologies, to your spouse, he/she is always willing to accept you, especially when he/she believes you are doing that sincerely.
You may think this is easier said than done, or impossible, but that is not the issue. If you truly have taken the time and really desire to reconcile with your spouse, what you have to do is to throw away you’re ago from the whole issues and go to him/her with an open heart.
He must accept it when the emotions and heart reflects in your “demeanor and words.
4 Always lit your face and pass a little smile when you see your spouse coming:-
Smile has a way of easing tension even when the situation is severe.
Don’t think am asking you to smile like a lunatic or as if you are posing for a selfie, but just to let you know that you must look natural and humble and never allow negativity overshadow you, just be pleased with your face lit up and a little smile; you will definitely make your spouse’s heart meltdown and feel happy to come to the point of settlement.
