If you have ever wondered in your heart about how to have a very wonderful, sweet and happy marriage exactly the way you wanted it, then, this article maybe the best article you have ever read in your life.
If you are still searching, then read this article to the last page because it will show you the way to go about it..
Many people have asked me questions on what to do if they really have to enjoy their marriage.
These are my answers to them
Though what I will tell you here may sound simple to you, but they will work pretty well in making your marriage a most desired one. Just take your time to study and work with them.
You must Know What You Want in Your Marriage
If you are looking to marry, then the first thing you must do is to get your jotter and pen and write down five important reasons why you made up your mind to marry; is it because your friends are getting married? Is it because you think you are advancing in age? Is it because your parents are asking you to?
Take time to think about what you are planning to do.
It may not be easy for you if you do not know the things you must know before you get in. The very reason for most break up in marriage is the absence of understanding of the institution call marriage.
Become Your Very self
It is very important and good to have a role model in life. However in marriage, I believe you are your own architect. Do not try to imitate what others people are doing in their various homes. It may not work the same way for you and your spouse. Do not over spend because you neighbor is doing so.
Never try to become a superman or a supper woman because you thought it will make your spouse love you more.
Decide on the way to go with your family. It is yours and you are only accountable to whatever you made it be.
Choose to Be Committed
One reason while marriage works very well is the individual commitment of the couples.
In a marriage where there is commitment, there is also peace, joy and love. This happens because every member of the family knows that the success and the failure of the marriage depends on them. Whatever happens, one will say “I am committed to making this marriage work” that will help to bring solution instead of chaos.
Choose to trust
Trust is very important in marriage. Once trust is broken in every relationship, the marriage slowly dies away. You must make up your mind to build trust if you truly want to have that type of marriage you want. Always make sure that those little promises you made to your spouse are being fulfilled.
Never promise what you have no plan of accomplishing. Have more trust deposited in your marriage emotional bank account.
Know what your spouse is capable of doing and what is impossible for him /her. A lot of things will want to challenge your trust for your partner, but keep yourself strong in building it up.
Say Sorry All the Time.
Let “SORRY” be the anthem you sing in your marriage. One popular quote says that “marriage is the union of two forgivers” you must learn how to forgive and always be the first to say sorry. It will help to make all wounds heal.
Never Cheat on Your Spouse.
Cheating is one of the things you must plan to avoid if you want a strong and healthy marriage. It is also one of the most reason why marriages break.
Never be tempted to indulge in it. Once you fall victim of it, so many other areas of your marriage will be affected.
I hope I made some points here.Please feel free to make a comment.
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