If you have ever wondered in your heart about how to have your dream marriage. The type of marriage that is filled with passion, then this article may be the best article you have ever read in your life.
If you are still searching, then read this article to the last page because it will show you the way to go about it.
Many people have asked me questions about what to do if they really have to enjoy their marriage.
These are my answers to them
Though what I will tell you here may sound simple to you, but they will work pretty well to help you have your dream marriage. Just take your time to study and work with them.
6 Step You Must Take To have Your Dream marriage
1) You Must Know What You Want in Your Marriage
If you are looking to marry, then the first thing you must do is to get your jotter and pen and write down five important reasons why you made up your mind to marry.
Is it because your friends are getting married? Maybe you think you are advancing in age, or because your parents are asking you to.
Take time to review what you are planning to do.
It may not be easy for you if you do not know the things you must know before you get in.
The very reason for most break up in marriage is the absence of understanding of the institution call marriage.
2) Become Your Very self
It is very important and good to have a role model in life. However, in marriage, I believe you are your own architect.
Do not try to imitate what other people are doing in their various homes. It may not work the same way for you and your spouse.
Do not overspend because your neighbor is doing so.
Never try to become a superman or a superwoman because you thought it will make your spouse love you more.
Decide on the way to go with your family. It is yours and you are only accountable to whatever you made it be.
3) Choose to Be Committed:
One reason while marriage works very well is the individual commitment of the couples.
In a marriage where there is a commitment, there is also peace, joy, and love.
This happens because every member of the family knows that the success and the failure of the marriage depend on them.
Whatever happens, one will say “I am committed to making this marriage work” that will help to bring solutions instead of chaos.
4) Choose to trust:
Trust is very important in marriage. Once trust is broken in every relationship, the marriage slowly dies away.
You must make up your mind to build trust if you truly want to have your dream marriage.
Always make sure that those little promises you made to your spouse are being fulfilled.
Never promise what you have no plan of accomplishing. Has more trust deposited in your marriage emotional bank account?
Know what your spouse is capable of doing and what is impossible for him /her. A lot of things will want to challenge your trust for your partner.
5) Say Sorry All the Time.
Let “SORRY” be the anthem you sing in your marriage. One popular quote says that “marriage is the union of two forgivers ” you must learn how to forgive and always be the first to say sorry.
It will help to make all wounds heal.
6) Never Cheat on Your Spouse:
Cheating is one of the things you must plan to avoid if you want a strong and healthy marriage.
It is also one of the most reason why marriages break.
Never be tempted to indulge in it. Once you fall, a victim of it, so many other areas of your marriage will be affected.
I hope I made some points here. Please feel free to make a comment.
Thanks and see you at the top.
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