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All the Best Marriage Proposal Ideas That Works

 

Marriage proposal ideas, marriage If you are planning to get hooked up soonest, then you must be thinking of a remarkable way to propose to your would be partner. Here are some interesting marriage proposal ideas that’ll excite her.

A marriage proposal is the act of asking someone you are in a relationship with for a hand in marriage.

Marriage proposal doesn’t happen always, but just once in a life time and you are reading this post because you are looking for that interesting marriage proposal ideas she can’t forget easily.

In this post I will show you some romantic ways to get the question out of your heart and make a huge impression to your partners heart as well.

 

What you must Know Before Proposing to Her.

You are reading this post because you want to make a wow marriage proposal to your fiance and so you are looking for interesting marriage proposal ideas that will get the job done.

That’s right! However.

No marriage proposal ideas will give you the results you desire if you are not sure what she like, what drives her or what moves her.

If you base your proposal on knowing better about what type of woman she is, then expect getting a big yes from her.

To help you understand that, here are 6 fact to know about women and how they react to different situations.

-The Sentimental Woman:-

if your fiance is the emotional type, then you have to consider using marriage proposal ideas that’s base on those things that reminds her of when, where, or how you first met or had your first romantic date. Those things will give her joy when she remembered the moments of your first day together.

– Adventurous Woman:

These are the types of women that love and enjoys seeing beautiful and good places. You can refuse them anything in this life but not giving her the opportunity for adventures.

– Nature love women.

These are women who love nature to the core. They are extremely happy when they watch all the things nature has to offer.

– Animal lovers:-

These women love animals and enjoy keeping pets.

– Sport lovers:

Some women love sport and can vouch their lives for any team that interests them. So sport heal her wound and make them happy.

– Music Lovers:

To these one’s music matters to them, just play a nice music around them and they are high in the spirit.

Those types of women described above can give you everything you want when you use what interest them the most in life.

So now you have understood women and the things that captures their attention most, it is time to propose to your heart desired girl.

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– If you understand your spouse to be as a more Sentimental person, then proposing to her will be much fruitful at these places listed below

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1) Take her to show or Theater:– Make sure that the music or play showing at that moment is what she loves most. If possible,you can get in touch with organizers maybe they will assist you to play or show whatever will make your proposal successful.

2) You can take her to her childhood areas, probably hometown:-

Before taking the trip, ask her some questions at least to know her best places in her hometown, that’ll help you know where to do the proposal.

3) Go to a beautiful and silent beach:– If there’s any beach you’ve been to together before, that will remind her of some wonderful times together, then that maybe a better place to propose to her.

4) Use any favourite room fill with memories:- Decorate any of your favourite room with picture memories of your relationship, then hang them at the corners of the walls and watch how emotional she will feel seeing those reminders of love. And  as you push out the phrase ” will you marry me from your”? lips, definitely, the answer will be yes.

 

5) Ask the chef from you favourite restaurant to place a ” will you marry me”? note as he serve the dinner to two of you.

– To propose to any woman that loves nature and have yes for an answer, make your proposal in places like –

6) National parks:- Take her to a beautiful state or national park, and immediately you get there ask someone around to take the pictures of you too. But get on your knees instead of posing as you propose to her.

7) Take her to a botanical garden:- Before your trip to the botanical garden, go and see the best spot that will be good for the proposal.

8) Seaside or lake side proposal:- Have a romantic excursion to a beautiful scenery with a lake or Seaside. Plan it such that you’ll have access to the sound system (microphone) them make your proposal.

 

– For the adventurous Women, the best places to pop those questions will be at the.-

9) Go mountain climbing:- Look for a beautiful mountains over looking a nice valley and as you pop up very little romantic words, propose to her. Just be very cautious and mindful of her safety and watch as things unfolds.

10) Have it at a park:- Another place will be at a beautiful park. Plan a get together with her old friends and family members at a nice hall close to where you want to propose to her.

Keep the visitors somewhere else and ask her for a drink. immediately you get to the bar, with family and friends watching, then propose to her.

11) “Destination proposal”
Another good way to make a wow proposal to her that she’ll always remember, is to do so on a holiday trip. It may not be anywhere far, it could be at a nearby city trip with your loved one.

Tip: Do not wait till you get to the city. You can do so in the car or on the plan and finally have the celebration when you get to the city.

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Proposing to the Animal loving women will be sweet when you use some of her loved animals.

12) If she love dogs, the get a good dog suite and wear it to her dog on the proposal day, and let the dog be the ring bearer.

 

 

13) Get a pet as gift:– Getting a new pet as a gift to her with a beautiful card telling the stories of how the pet was rescued. The story can melt her heart and make her agree to your proposal.

 

– If your partner to be is a sport lover, then proposing to her during sporting events will be a nice idea. Here are few best proposal ideas for you.

14) Take her to state or national sport events:

You can’t request assistance from the organizers. Ask them to display some customized messages at some corners during the half time, breaks, etc. Then propose to her.

15) Take her to World sporting events like Olympic game:-

Although going to the world sport events require money, it will be a good place to propose to her if she is a sport lover. Going to Olympic games, European tournament to propose to her will add colour to your proposal.

– Finally the music and book lovers will be very happy to say yes to your proposals if you do so when they are listening to good music

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16) Write her a song:-

If you can’t write, then look for good song composer to compose a sweet proposal song to her. She’ll be happy to have her own song. Perform or play this song to her at any special place.

17) Be an instrumentalist for her:-

Take her to a good romantic location and play an propose to her as you play musical instruments she never knew you can play for her.


Note: There are many other marriage proposal ideas that are not listed here, but am glad the list of proposal ideas listed in this post can still wow your fiance.

However, most women always want to be sure their man is romantic and caring enough. So being creative as you propose to he will make her know you are one of the romantic type of man.

 

7 Signs Your Husband is Controlling You

abusive marriage, controlling husband,husband is controllingYour husband didn’t wake up one day and decide to be a controlling husband, it started gradually and unnoticed, sometimes it looks like your partner is becoming so caring and romantic and sooner it graduated to commands and “increasing control”.

Things were not like this when the relationship started, you are sure you married a charming, intelligent, king and funny man.

Things changed suddenly
He was very sweet to be with and he always knows the right word to use when he wants you to feel special.

He was your dream man, but something happened suddenly,

Initially you thought he was only trying to be a better man, the guy that wants the best  to his wife, such that doesn’t hide his feelings and always mean what he says.

Now things have changed a great deal, he criticize your every move and nag all the time too. Now he want everything go exactly the way he wants it.

All the charm has become manipulations, and now you are not sure what’s going on.

 

 

     7 Signs your husband is controlling. 

 

1) When he is over monitoring and continuously jealous:- “Jealousy can be described as the maintaining or vigilantly guarding the people we love, mostly when we feel we have a rival by the corner”.

Being jealous is healthy, but there’s a big disparity between feeling jealous and exerting an unhealthy jealous behavior.

Normal jealousy usually comes spontaneously, and you can quickly control it, but when you indulge and act on your jealous feelings with suspicion and and feeling of insecurity, then it has become unhealthy and it can greatly destroy your relationship.

When your partner becomes jealous and controlling they start monitoring all you do, your behavior, where you go and the friends you keep.

He will sometimes make you account for almost any simple action you take as well as the way you spend.

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 Here are few other signs of unhealthy jealousy.

– Too much questions of your behavior
– inappropriate behavior and accusation.
– feeling of obsession and paranoia.
– Feeling irritable.

2) Keeping you away from family and friends:- Your controlling hubby may not tell you outright to stop seeing your family or your best friends, but  from the way he pouts when he knows you went to your brothers house or see a friend or makes I’ll statements concerning your friends, that you even start feeling guilty to indulge in those things, then he’s got you where he wanted.

A writer Eden strong said that “manipulations usually starts with guilt, if your hubby can make you believe that you are guilty for your actions, (even when you didn’t do anything) then he is sure your can do anything he says.

His goal in doing all these is just to end your relationship with other close friend so your life can revolve only around him.

 

3) They want to be the financial controller:- if your husband is controlling, he will definitely want to be in control of all the families finances, so he could be able to monitor all the spending as well as well as keep you in check.

It not wrong or uncommon when a man manages the family bills, but controlling spouses will definitely want to keep every money away from you and he will also want you to account for any little money you spent.

He is always ready to give some allowances, but he will prevent you from buying anything that’ll be meaningful to you.

 

4) The love to Criticize any little thing you do:- Sometimes, the controlling partner pretends he is supporting you, but he’s subtly criticizing you. Feuerman said ” Abuser can convince you that he is treating you the way they do just to help you”,

They will always want to criticize any decision you make in life. They sound as though they are advising you but the are really mocking you.

It is true that every couple criticize occasionally, but controlling always do that, and will want to prove to you that you are incapable of making important decisions on your own. Their greatest wishes is to undermine your strength and abilities.

 

5) He will never trust you:- You have the right to your privacy, but your controlling partner will want to prove to you that only the unfaithful and unromantic wife keeps her email, and social media passwords secret.

They will want to hear your conversation on the phone, read you mails and massage, because they never trusted you, and they will always want to have access to everything you do, if they couldn’t stop you from doing it.

 

6) They make promises and never keeps it :- Reliability is important in any relationship, but when your partner always flakes, it’s a clear indication that he’s controlling in nature. They are always quick to give promises and never have the intention of fulfilling it.

All they want is to ” play on your hopefulness”. They make you trust and believe in them again and again so you have no reasons to run.

7) They Make You Feel bad about yourself:-
Sometimes, a controlling spouse will always not only try to whisk you away from all the supports you depend on, and also want to make you doubt yourself as well so you’ll always question your personal judgement

Maria Hartwell- Walker Ed. D of Psych Central describes it as” gas-lighting.
When partner deliberately claims that thing you are sure happens didn’t happen, then he is Gas lighting.

All they want to achieve is just to destroy your judging abilities and make you feel hopeless.

 

      Steps to take if your Husband is Controlling.

It is obvious to you at this point that your husband is controlling and you want to stay married, then I will show you how to deal with it so you can be happy again.
Here they are

   Dealing with a controlling spouse

1) Seek help from experts:-

If your controlling spouse is impassive to accepting his behavior, or if you are sure that two of you can’t fix the issues.

Then seeking the help of a professional counseling may be a good the alternative solution for you. The specialist will help to explain to your spouse the implications of controlling behavior and how to get over it.

 

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2) Stay calm:-

Many people believe that arguing is the best response to the controlling habit. But, arguing with a controlling will not work as he will not allow you to win. Argument will only add fuel to the issues at hand.

The best approach to solve it is to keep quiet and don’t challenge him. Keep calm as he is ranting, don’t utter a word even if you disagree with what he’s saying.

 

3) Be empathetic;-

Any time your spouse tries his attitude again, try to see thing from his perspective. Consider why he is doing what he’s doing. This will help the situation from escalating, because now you understand him well.

 

4) You can walk away if need be:- Sometimes you can succeed correcting your spouses controlling behavior, in some cases you will fail, however, the important thing is to be willing to throw in the towel if you are not seeing changes you want.

There’s no need to keep tolerating certain behaviors while you are dying in silence. If your partner physically, emotionally, sexually or verbally abuses you, then the best option is to run for your dear life.

 

Finally, be sure to do all you think is necessary in helping your controlling husband get over his character, but don’t try to change him yourself because you won’t succeed. It’s either you look for help from and expert.

However, if things are not getting better, then decide to quit. It is better to run than to die than to tolerate something that’s not worth waiting for.

I sincerely hope this post will help you know what to do when your husband is controlling. If yes, then help me to share it with your friends and family.

I am your friend, Ikenna Uchegbu (Murphyaik).
I wish you success.

13 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married

q .                                                                           There are so many questions to ask before married, but most people get stocked in the sweetness of their romance that they forget to ask these questions before getting hooked up at last.

These are the reason for most problems couples usually experienced after sometimes in their relationship.

Relationship experts, said that the recipe for happy ever after is “being able to break out of that day-to-day zone and have meaningful, honest conversations about your personalities and your values—the ones you share and the ones you disagree on. And, where you’re willing to compromise”.

Here’s why

Since marriage means taking a step forward from mere relationship there’s need to ask each other some important question, at least to know each other a little bit better hooking up at last.
Truth is that the more you acquaint with one another, the better you know if you are ready for taking the next step which is marriage.

 

You’ll agree with me that marriage always brings new obstacles and challenges which erupts after some years. Most couples are ignorant of what to do to avoid such problems.

And so if you are planning to get married any moment from now, I implore you to sit down with your would be partner and ask each other questions about the past, present, and future of your relationship.

Starting the conversation may be a big challenge to you, and so to aid you get over your fears of starting the conversation that will help you start your marriage in a secure foundation I have written down in this post some important questions to ask at before you get married.

 

What these questions will help you achieve.

 

  • You will be abreast of most of all the problems that may come in future:- Most of the marriages never succeeded because of problems that comes up later in the relationship, and most of them would have been abated if there’s good acquaintance between couples.

Taking time to ask questions before marriage will keep you abreast of the troubles, because you’ll be able to know if you are compatible with each other.

 

  • You’ll know each other better:- Coming together to share your past, present and future also gives you opportunities to know yourselves better. John Gutmann, one of the prolific marriage researchers found out from his research that marriage lasts longer when couples know each other better.

 

  • Gives you opportunities to plan your marriage:- Asking questions gives you the opportunity to plan ahead. The answers from both shows you what will work or will not work in your relationship. Knowing that makes you plan ahead.

 

  • Know your compatibility statues:-By asking these questions, you’ll understand if both of you are compatible with each other. Thus prevents future problems.

 

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You have great benefits when you ask these questions before marriage so let’s go ahead as look at what the important questions are.

 

     13 Important Questions to Ask Before Getting Married.

 

1) Why do you chose me among all?
Your first question should base on understanding why he/she is planning to marry you after seeing many other girls / boys.

If your fiance or fiancee finds this question hard to answer, then that may be a clear indication that things may not work out good for you in terms of marriage.

2) Do you really love me? If yes, then what attracted you to me?:-

Before someone decides to ask for your hands in marriage, something about you may have interested him or her.

Take time to tell yourselves what attracted you to each other. What do you admire about him/her physical appearance, character,etc. Be open as you talk about this, do not hide anything and remember that hoping that something about him/her will change later may be a disastrous for you in future.

 

3) Are you ready to prioritize our marriage?:-

This question let’s you know what values your partner placed in your relationship. If other things will come before your marriage, then be ready for the troubles that will arise later.

 

4) Are you in any debt?:-

A research conducted in 2018 by ” Pew Research Center” shows that money is the number one reasons couples fight.

Therefore, before you get married, have a discussion about your finances: if you have any old debts, be free to share it as this will help you plan well on how to avoid going into more debt through irrelevant spending.

Have full discussion about this. talk about when, where and how many children you’ll want to have together.

Also talk about how or what you should do when there’s a delay in child bearing.

 

6) How Do We Handle Conflict and Challenges?

Research proves that arguing and confrontation are not bad for marriage, however the most important thing is how to deal with them.

The ability to settle your disputes and confrontation will clearly show how compatible both of you are.
Discuss about how to resolve your differences as well as what you should do if there’s need to visit a therapist to help or not.

 

7) What’s your spending habits?:-

Some people knows the importance of saving money, while many others don’t, they prefer to shop, buy costly things.

Having different spending habits will bring disagreements between you too. So it is important you talk it over as you are planning to take the big step. Discuss about how to create family budget and how to take care of other financial issues.

 

8) How do you relate with Your Family?
Ask questions about how to relate with family and extended families and always have in mind that when you get married, you are married into a family.

 

9) How do you want to spend your time alone to be happy?:-

Talk about your time together and times apart.

Remember everyone needs time to think, read or reflect on personal life. So ask your partner how he/she prefers to observe the time apart to be happy.

 

10) What role does religion play in you? :-

There’s  tendency that two of you may come from different religious backgrounds, and if there’s no harmony, there will be troubles, and so talk about it.

Would there be need for each of you to concentrate on your individual religion affiliation or not.
What would the children religion be like also?.

 

11) Marriage is for better for worse, are we prepared for it?:-

Marriage is not always rosy, there are times, weeks, months when things will look chaotic, but you have chosen to stand your ground no matter what.

Sometimes also you want to stay put, Be sure that you fiance / fiancee is also ready to go through all with you.

 

12) How do we share the household chores? In some relationships the whole chores are usually left for the women. Of course men are expected to also help out when the chores are too many for the women.

If you didn’t talk about it earlier it may be hard to define who does what when the time comes.

 

13) “What Are Your Aspirations and Dreams?”

It is good to talk about your desires, dreams and aspirations.

Though it changes sometimes, but you can ask about what your partner loves to do, be or have as well as where he/she want to be or travel to. It’s also good to know if you and your partner are willing to make sacrifices for each other.

 

Finally, you’ll have to take some time and think about other important questions to ask before marriage. These questions will give you an edge over the problems that could arise in your marriage later. I have listed 13 of the questions to help you.

Read the post carefully and be willing to ask these questions without fear or shame.

 

i am still your friend ikenna Uchegbu ( murphyaik)

 

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