The Most Obvious Signs Of A Failing Marriage.
1) You are lonely in your relationship:
Loneliness is the commonest problem among couples across the globe, and that’s a big sign of problems in marriage.
What does it mean to be lonely in marriage?
This means different things to different people. If you feel unloved, unheard, and disconnect from your partner, that shows you are lonely.
You may be close together and still feel disconnected, there is no physical or mental intimacy between you and your partner. And you don’t relate with each other, but outsiders believe you do.
Few things may be the cause of that:
– Emotional issues:
Sometimes, stress and depression can cause loneliness in marriage. You can see a doctor or a therapist if you notice this in your life, so you can rid it from your life before hooking up.
This is another thing that can bring loneliness to your relationship. Incompatibility leads to intolerance, resentment, impatience, and unhappiness. When you enter any relationship you will feel lonely all your life.
– Past experiences:
It may come from your past relationships and events and not from your partner. Look closely to find the real cause and then deal with it.
– No Together Time:
You are not spending more time together. Couples who spend time together find time to settle their differences and discuss the best ways forward. When it’s neglected, it causes a disconnect and then loneliness sets in.
– Terrorizing and Bullying:
You are constantly afraid to express yourself in your relationship because when you do you will be molested. Your partner abuses and bully you at any little chance, so you want to keep your peace to avoid being molested.
How to cure loneliness in marriage:
Solve the underlying issues: Find a time and discuss with your partner and settle all your problems. First, discover what they are and work on dealing with them at once. If you let it linger for long it will cause so many problems in your relationship.
Restore the good times: Think about all that made you happy at the beginning of your relationship and restore them. I mean the romantic dated, the romantic text messages and calls. Do not neglect sex and romance.
2) No Honesty:
Some couples withhold vital information from themselves to avoid trouble when the information is late let out, it becomes a disaster.
Marriage is supposed to be a free zone for couples. Remember your promises to be committed to your partner and your marriage when you said your wedding vows.
You can only do so when you are transparent and honest with your partner.
Honesty leads to love and commitment, but dishonesty destroys love and trust and builds a wall between you.
Solutions to dishonesty:
Learn to be open and honest, discuss with your partner, and keep working with each other to build a healthy relationship.
3) You Don’t Fight Anymore:
I know it sounds absurd but sometimes lack of fight is a clear indication that things are not right anymore.
Healthy couples are not afraid to fight because it helps then move forward as partners.